How Can We Express Our Appreciation for Someone’s Presence in Our Lives When Words Are Not Enough?

Introduction

From Chennai Diaries...

Today, I felt compelled to share a heartfelt experience. It was a Friday morning when I arrived at the office. Routine began with the familiar steps: securing office transport, setting up my workspace, and indulging in my favorite cappuccino.

Chennai is known for its traditional customs and attire. Even in the workplace, I often see elderly women adorned with Gajra, a floral garland, and Aapa Kumkum, a traditional bindi, showcasing a blend of elegance and cultural heritage.

Meeting the Office Aunty

Upon reaching for my warming coffee, I noticed the office cleaning aunty sitting near the coffee machine. She wore a traditional Chennai saree, adorned with intricate gold designs and a turmeric stain, her smile genuine and welcoming. Her attire seemed to radiate the grace of Goddess Lakshmi, reflecting her natural beauty.

I was captivated by her presence and approached her, intending to express my admiration. However, the language barrier initially posed a challenge. With a combination of sign language and gestures, I conveyed my appreciation. She smiled, further enhancing her aura of kindness.

A Request for a Gajra

I then asked her where she obtained the Gajra and how much it was worth, aiming to understand the significance of her beloved accessory. Despite my best efforts, the language barrier persisted, leading to laughter and shared understanding.

The Heartwarming Surprise

The following Monday, after a usual day of coffee and routine, my colleague informed me that our office aunty had approached me. With a gesture, she indicated for me to take a hand. From the corner of her saree, she offered me a Gajra, a thoughtful and unexpected gesture that profoundly moved me.

This spontaneous act of kindness and remembrance across a language barrier underscored the universal language of love and gratitude. Her simple gesture significantly brightened my day and inspired me to honor the presence of such individuals in our lives.

Learning from the Deed

This experience taught me two invaluable lessons: first, the profound effects of love and kindness span across linguistic and cultural barriers; second, it is crucial to cultivate gratitude and humility towards those who tirelessly support us, enabling us to focus on our work.

Conclusion

Let us remember the importance of appreciation. A simple action, often overlooked, can make a profound impact. Remain grateful and humble, recognizing the value of every individual who contributes to our well-being.

Thank you for reading. Keep learning, hustling, and exploring.

Image Source: Me, soon after putting the Gajra on my hair.