Wish I Had It Now: The Childhood Marvels I Cherish from My Teen Years
As I reflect back on my teen years, many things from that time stand out as things I wish I had today. One of them is the freedom of undamaged arteries, a healthy spine, and most importantly, copious amounts of free time. Life has a funny way of catching up with us, and the realities of adulthood often make those carefree days a mere memory.
Plaque-Free Clean Arteries and a Properly Functioning Spine
My teenage years were marked by the ideal health and vigor that often goes hand-in-hand with youth. My arteries were clean, and my spine was intact. Yet, as I write this, a healthy heart and back are treasures I wish I could hold onto. The reality is, even back then, my spine was healthy but my arteries—protection against the future illnesses that come with age—were not as robust as I would have liked. It's a stark reminder that health is something to cherish and preserve regardless of age.
It's fascinating that the phrase "maturity" often implies only the latter half of life, suggesting that teens and young adults are somehow less mature. However, an immature brain is just an immature driver. Once you have the keys to a car, the responsibility and maturity that come with it go to a different level. This realization has made me cherish the freedom and safety awareness I once had.
The Golden Age of Free Time
One of the most cherished aspects of my teenage life was the sheer amount of free time I had. I could spend hours playing video games or hanging out with friends, with only a few responsibilities: attending school and working part-time. These were barely any responsibilities for me, and that's what made those times so enjoyable. Today, with three children, a house, a dog, and a demanding career, there is barely any spare time left.
My childhood days, although filled with trivial duties, felt like a break from the adult world. Contrast that with the current day's overwhelming schedule, where even moments of procrastination or me time feel like a rebellion against responsible living. The reality of having children is that every moment is dedicated to their needs, and that takes a significant toll.
Responsibilities and Time Management
Now that my second child is eleven years old, my free time is a distant memory. I find myself juggling numerous tasks throughout the day. The list of things I need to do seems endless: walking the dog, preparing meals, grocery shopping, laundry, and so much more.
The stark contrast between my teenage life and my current life is a reminder of the valuable time and opportunities I took for granted. Children, careers, and home responsibilities all vie for my time, leaving little space for the real free time I once enjoyed. But the silver lining is that, in about 10-15 years, my children will be on their own, and life will return to a more manageable routine. By then, I may have more time to myself, but that time will come at a certain cost.
The journey through adulthood is a constant reminder of the value of each moment. I hope to cherish the remaining time with my current responsibilities while also looking forward to the phase ahead when the pressure might be a bit less.