Why We Meet People Not in Our Destiny
Have you ever wondered why you meet certain individuals in your life, even when you feel they aren't meant to be a part of your destiny or kismat?
How do you know they don't belong to your destiny?
They are indeed in your destiny! You just don't recognize it yet.
One of the greatest lessons life imparts is through the people we meet. The universe is trying to tell us that life is much richer and deeper than we perceive. By listening to others, we expand our understanding and broaden our spectrum of life.
People as Life's Teachers
Our interactions with people shape us into the individuals we become. Every person we meet, even if they don't seem like a destined match, could be a key player in molding our character. They help us feel a range of emotions, such as joy, sorrow, anger, and excitement.
They are the catalysts that make us resilient and help us handle the challenges that life presents on the path to our destiny.
Meeting new people each day is a natural part of life, especially when you move out of your comfort zone. We can't assume that meeting someone means a lack of destiny. It’s all about coincidence, and any meeting has the potential to bring unexpected surprises. In the end, everyone we meet teaches us something, whether it’s by the lessons they impart or the experiences they offer.
Nature’s Variety
Just as nature offers a variety of foods with different tastes and nutritional values, life presents us with different people and experiences. It is up to our choices and needs to determine who we interact with. Meeting the right people, or those who will positively influence our lives, is not predetermined as destiny, but rather a matter of coincidence or chance.
Life’s Mirrors
Our encounters with people have deep significance in our lives. Every interaction is guided by divine reasons to aid our personal growth. We human beings are conditioned with a specific perception of good and bad, right and wrong, which is often imperfect. This perception creates friction and harmony, depending on the person and the interactions we have.
The mind has a capacity for expansion, but it only works effectively when we have a clear understanding of smaller details. Ego plays a significant role in our perceptions, leading us to view others and situations through a lens of self-importance. We often label others as not in our destiny because they leave with negative vibes, yet we forget that we also contribute to these vibes.
The mind and ego often crave control, and this desire can spill into interactions, causing conflicts. However, by embracing the power of love and adopting a positive mindset, we can transform these interactions into constructive exchanges. True love fosters positive vibrations, which can neutralize negative ones.
In practicing love, we become wiser, adopting virtues such as patience, sacrifice, perseverance, and gratitude. interactions with people who bring negative vibes offer an opportunity to improve ourselves and withstand life's challenges with clarity and calm. This can help us build character and find more positive interactions, even when others exhibit negative behavior.
Thus, we should not blame others or see them as destined to be negative. Instead, we should focus on our own actions and reactions. When we remain calm and understanding, we can navigate these situations with grace and positivity, bringing about change both in ourselves and in others.