Why Reunited Dogs Often Return to Shelters and How to Handle It Responsibly
Adopting a dog is a big step that involves not only finding the perfect companion but also understanding the full responsibilities that come with it. Despite the best intentions, some adoptive families reunite with their adopted dogs but quickly find themselves returned to shelters. This article explores the reasons behind this phenomenon and provides insights on how to handle such challenges responsibly.
The 'Honeymoon' Period and Behavioral Realities
When a dog is reunited with its previous owner, an initial period often referred to as the 'honeymoon' stage may occur. This phase is characterized by the dog behaving unusually well, perhaps because it has been removed from a stressful environment and is settling into a calm and routine lifestyle in the adoptive home. This temporary period of 'perfection' can create unrealistic expectations for both the adoptive family and the previous owner.
However, the honeymoon phase is not sustainable, and dogs typically revert to their normal behaviors. This sudden change can lead to disappointment and frustration for the adoptive family who may have had unrealistic expectations. The dog, on the other hand, may also experience confusion and stress in the transition back to the previous environment, adding to the complexity of the situation.
Understanding Common Issues
Reunited dogs often return to shelters due to several common issues:
Behavioral Adjustments
One of the primary reasons dogs rejoin shelters is behavioral adjustment. Dogs may exhibit behaviors they did not demonstrate when first adopted, such as aggression, destructiveness, or extreme anxiety. These behaviors can be exacerbated by changes in daily routines, new family members, or other environmental factors.
Communication Misunderstandings
Effective communication between the adoptive family and the previous owner is crucial. Misunderstandings about the dog's behaviors and routines can often lead to conflicts and dissatisfaction. For instance, if the adoptive family does not understand the dog's need for a consistent daily schedule, it may lead to excessive barking or destructive behavior.
Health and Medical Issues
Health problems during the reunion period can significantly affect a dog's well-being and behavior. Unbeknownst to the adoptive family, the dog might have underlying health issues that were not apparent during the initial adoption. These issues can deteriorate over time, leading the adoptive family to seek help from shelters.
What Can Adoptive Families Do to Handle These Challenges?
Understanding the challenges and taking steps to address them can help in maintaining a healthy relationship with the adopted dog and potentially prevent the need for a reunion with shelters.
Stable Environment and Routine
Creating a stable and predictable environment is crucial. Dogs thrive in a consistent and routine setting. Keeping the same feeding and exercise schedules, and minimizing sudden changes in the household, can significantly improve the dog's behavior and well-being.
Positive Reinforcement Training
Using positive reinforcement training can help manage and modify behaviors. Reward-based training rewards good behavior and corrects negative behavior in a non-threatening manner. This approach fosters a trusting relationship between the family and the dog.
Open Communication
Maintaining open communication with the previous owner is essential. Regular updates and understanding about the dog's environment can help both parties address issues and make necessary adjustments.
Conclusion
Adopting a dog is a rewarding yet challenging experience. Reunions with previous owners can bring about both joyful reunions and temporary challenges. Understanding the reasons behind reunion returns and proactively addressing these challenges can help maintain a positive relationship with the adopted dog and ensure a successful partnership.
Remember, the goal is to provide a loving and supportive home for the dog while respecting its individual needs and behaviors. By doing so, we can ensure that adopted dogs have the best possible chance of thriving in their new homes.