Why I’m Not Fed Up Living in Poland
I vividly remember the day I bid adieu to Warsaw, my hometown, in 2011. I was 22 years old and stepping into a new chapter of my life, one that has now spanned nine solid years. Warsaw, with its perfect size and blend of urban benefits without the drawbacks of smaller towns, continues to be a city that I deeply love and have no immediate plans to leave.
Despite my strong attachment to Warsaw, I have had moments of frustration with the Polish lifestyle. In this article, I will discuss the reasons behind my love for Poland, the challenges I have faced, and how I navigate these challenges to remain happily settled in this wonderful city.
Why Warsaw Remains My Home
While Warsaw is undeniably a gem in the Central European landscape, it does have its imperfections. However, the city's strides in improving transportation facilities and environmental issues make it an appealing place to continue living. The city is constantly working towards a better future, and that hope keeps me here.
Challenges Faced in Poland
Living in Poland presents several objective and subjective challenges. One of the most obvious is the disparity between low wages and relatively high living expenses. Additionally, poor working conditions, especially long working hours, and the environmental challenges of winter air pollution are significant issues. These factors are objective and greatly impact daily life.
As for my subjective challenges, I sought to progress my academic and professional career, learn new languages, and gain independence from both family and the financial constraints of a traditional lifestyle. Warsaw, being densely inhabited with a majority of young adults heavily indebted, made it challenging to achieve this level of financial autonomy.
Navigating Polish Society
Poland is a predominantly Catholic society with a relatively smaller number of foreigners compared to other European Union countries like Germany. In recent years, the landscape has changed with more Ukrainians and Indians settling in Poland. However, this does not significantly alter the day-to-day experiences of a foreigner living here.
As an Indian, my upbringing was marked by a strong sense of obedience to parental authority, respect for elders, and a collective mindset. Adjusting to the individualistic culture of Europe, including Poland, was a significant challenge. In a broader context, this individualism is a prevalent trait in many Western European countries.
Moments of Reflection
There have been times when I contemplated leaving Poland for other European countries like Norway or Sweden, but as the saying goes, 'if you move, your problems move with you.' While such moves can provide temporary relief, the underlying issues eventually reappear. During these times of crisis, I find solace in the company of fellow Indians and engage in activities like meditation and exercise.
Conclusion
In conclusion, I am not tired of living in Poland. Although there are moments when I feel frustrated with the lifestyle, I remain committed to this city. The challenges I face are both part of and unique to the Polish experience. By finding support and maintaining a healthy balance, I continue to thrive in this beautiful and vibrant city.