Why Do We Buy Books We Know We Will Never Read?
Have you ever purchased a book, only to leave it unopened for months or even years? Or have you bought a book, knowing deep down that you might never find the time to read it, but still managed to add it to your collection? If so, you're not alone. This behavior, however mysterious it may seem, is rooted in a combination of psychological, emotional, and even practical reasons.
Understanding Our Book Buying Habits
My own purchasing habits are simple: I only buy books that I plan to read. As someone who operates on a strict budget, I'm keen to avoid any unnecessary spending. Nevertheless, I recognize that my book collection is not solely about reading—it’s about the joy of having a vast repository of stories at my fingertips.
H2: The Joys of a Growing Collection
The books on my shelf aren't remnants of failed reading journeys; they're unfinished worlds waiting for the right moment to be explored. Some of these books might be untouched for years, while others might find their way into my hands just days after purchase, piquing my interest. This collection of books provides a sense of comfort and security, a reminder that new adventures and friendships await me, right there in my living room.
The books in my collection are not just objects; they are companions. They bring a sense of familiarity and ease into my life, providing solace and inspiration even when I'm not reading them. It's almost as if each book is a silent promise, a confirmation that I can always dive into a new world at any time if I wish to.
Rereading and the Endless Shelf
One intriguing aspect of my book collection is the endless shelf that never quite reaches zero. Each new book I purchase is added to a growing stack, and the idea of it dwindling down to nothing terrifies me. Yet, instead of feeling anxious about this, I welcome the change and variety that new additions bring. I've read from this stack for years, and although the number of unread books has fluctuated, I always ensure that every purchased book eventually finds its way into my hands.
H2: Intentional Book Purchases
There are, of course, exceptions to the rule. Sometimes I buy books because I know they are authored by specific authors whose work I deeply admire. My interest in these books is not just about the reading, but also about supporting the authors. This is especially true for me, as my mother was a librarian and my husband's aunt served as the National Librarian. The knowledge that my purchases can contribute to the library system, even indirectly, adds an extra layer of satisfaction to my selection process.
In conclusion, the reasons we buy books we know we will never read are as diverse as the readers themselves. Whether it's the joy of owning a physical copy, the comfort of having a potential escape ready, or the support of authors, these purchases play a vital role in our lives. So, if you find yourself adding a book to your collection, remember that it's not just a waste of money; it’s an investment in the stories you'll read in the future.