Why Do Some Filipino Women Marry Foreigners?

The Philippines, known as a 'matriarchal' society, has women who often hold high standards for their partners. This societal structure may explain why some Filipino women look elsewhere for partners who often meet their criteria better. This article explores the reasons behind the trend of Filipino women marrying foreigners and dispels some common perceptions.

Higher Standards in Filipino Society

It is an observation that Filipino women often have higher standards for their partners compared to their local counterparts. This could be due to the traditional societal roles where women carry a significant amount of responsibility and expectation. When local Filipino men do not meet these standards, many seek out partners from countries with higher income potentials, smarter individuals who are considered more responsible.

Perceptions vs. Reality

While there is a perception that many Filipino women marry foreigners, the numbers actually portray a different picture. According to a survey during the pandemic, Filipino women ranked 65th out of 150 countries in terms of marrying foreigners. They ranked 49th when it came to marrying Americans. This statistic suggests that the actual number of Filipino women marrying foreigners is relatively low.

However, the perception remains high due to several factors. One key reason is the higher income potential associated with men from more developed countries. Many Filipino women consider this a significant factor in choosing a partner.

Cultural Factors and Gender Issues

The higher incidence of infidelity among Filipino men, as reported in surveys, also plays a role. A significant number of married men have admitted to cheating or have expressed the willingness to do so if they thought they could get away with it. This behavior, unfortunately, is not well-received by Filipino women and has contributed to a cultural divide.

Interestingly, Filipina women are more practical when it comes to marriage. They prioritize financial stability and security, especially in a context where divorce is not legally available or socially acceptable. In many cases, a marriage is seen as a financial contract rather than a purely romantic or emotional union. Filipinas strive to avoid being burdened by partners who could potentially pull them down financially.

While many Filipino women do marry for love, they are cautious about their financial wellbeing. This practical perspective is aligned with their cultural values and the harsh realities of their socio-political environment.

Conclusion

While the societal norm in the Philippines emphasizes the importance of traditional gender roles, Filipino women are not immune to the desire for a better life and stability. The trend of Filipino women marrying foreigners reflects both their aspirations and the cultural and economic realities they face.