What to Do When a Girl Says ‘Yes’
The excitement of hearing a girl say ‘yes’ can be overwhelming, but what do you do next? This article will guide you through the next steps and offer valuable insights to help ensure you're making the most of this opportunity.
Understanding Her 'Yes'
When a girl says ‘yes’ to something, it often depends on the context. For instance, if she says, ‘Yes, I like chocolates’, it would be a thoughtful gesture to give her some chocolates: ‘Here, try these.’ It’s a simple act that can make her feel valued and appreciated.
Similarly, if she says, ‘Yes, I’d like you to walk me home’, it would be best to follow through with your promise: ‘I hope to see you again.’ Walking her home not only demonstrates your care but also creates an opportunity for more meaningful conversations.
However, it’s important to note that some responses, such as ‘Yes, those are my packages’ or ‘Yes, this is my dog’, might require a different type of reaction. Asking her if she would like you to carry her packages or if her dog is friendly can show your interest in her well-being and her pet.
Be cautious with more sensitive responses, such as ‘Yes, this is my revolver’. It’s vital to proceed with care and avoid any possible misunderstandings.
Understanding Uncertainty
It's important to remember that sometimes, a ‘yes’ response can be ambiguous. It's not always clear what a girl is saying ‘yes’ to. If you are unsure, unzip your pants and let her unbutton them, or simply ask her to clarify. While it might seem obvious to you, communication is key to avoid any misunderstandings.
Often, a ‘yes’ response could mean different things: it might be a sexual invitation or a request for a date. To be safe, it’s best to let her set the pace and make her feel comfortable.
Planning Your Next Move
When a girl says ‘yes’ to spending more time together, it’s crucial to plan your next move thoughtfully. Here are some tips to make the most of your date:
1. Find out what she feels like doing: Ask her if there is a movie, theatre, ballet, restaurant, or a bowling alley that she has been wanting to visit. Let her choose unless she prefers you to make the decision. This shows her that you are considerate and value her opinion.
2. Be caring and attentive: Ensure she feels like the most important person on Earth throughout the date. Display your interest in her, listen to her, and be supportive. Avoid pushing too hard; instead, be gentle and let her take the lead.
3. End on a high note: At the end of the date, thank her for her company and express your enjoyment of spending time with her. Inviting her for another date will make her feel valued and morelikely to say ‘yes’ to your proposal.
4. Follow up: Before you sleep, send her a text message, even if it's just to say, ‘good night’. This small gesture can make her feel connected to you and more interested in continuing your relationship.
Always Be Ready
If you are unmarried, take the opportunity when presented. Don’t miss out on chances that might not come again, as you might regret not having shown your love. Women and girls are beautiful memories, and we are fortunate that during our time, we did not have cell phones to take their pictures. This means that we can cherish the lovely faces we remember and imagine for years to come.
Finally, play it cool. If you move too fast or seem overly eager, she might feel uncomfortable or pushed. Listen to her, almost agree with her complaints, and genuinely laugh at her corny jokes. This will help her feel more comfortable and at ease with you.
By following these steps and tips, you can make the most of a girl saying ‘yes’ and build a strong foundation for a meaningful relationship.