The Unnoticed Patterns of Human Behavior

Observing the world through a unique lens, I have noticed several patterns in human behavior that often go unnoticed by the majority. These patterns can be seen in various contexts, from simple actions in household routines to larger societal trends. Understanding these patterns can provide valuable insights into human nature and behavior.

Unseen Landscaping Patterns

During my university days, I had the opportunity to work as a landscaper. This experience unveiled a series of patterns that I had previously overlooked. For instance, the way weeds grow in hedge bushes, grass is cut in a lawn, or the long strands of grass that remain untrimmed around poles and posts, are all patterns that were previously invisible to me. These patterns, once noticed, can no longer be unseen. (H2)

Societal Norms in Public Spaces

In public spaces, especially in restaurants, there are certain behaviors and norms that often go unnoticed. For example, the poor spelling and grammar inconsistencies in people's stories or excuses, or the use of frozen vegetables instead of fresh ones, are common yet overlooked issues. These small nuances contribute to a larger picture of societal norms and expectations. (H2)

Environmental Hygiene and Responsibility

The cleanliness of our environment is another area where unnoticed patterns become evident. Debris, including cigarette butts, often found in storm drains, is a responsibility that should be shared among all property owners, not just the town. The responsibility is often overlooked, leading to a collective neglect of cleanliness and hygiene. This is a stark reminder that humanity is not helpless, but rather, it is often a collective disregard for responsibility that poses challenges. (H2)

Originality and Repetition in Thinking

A significant pattern in human behavior is the desire for originality, often seen in individuals who believe their thinking and beliefs to be "original" and "their own." However, in reality, most people's thoughts are merely versions of or combinations of what others have told them. This pattern is evident in the lack of research and the tendency to repeat what is heard or seen, rather than seeking out and synthesizing diverse viewpoints. This tendency is exploited by advertisers, politicians, and media, who rely on people to parrot back what they hear or see. (H2)

People's Patterns of Interaction

Interactions with people also reveal interesting and often unnoticed patterns. One such pattern is the way people are more willing to be around you when they can serve your needs. This behavior is not limited to those seeking assistance but can also apply to those who find their worth in being helpers. These individuals tend to only come around when you are at your weakest and disappear when you are healthy and capable again. Another pattern is the negative reactions people have when your opinions differ from theirs, as though everyone must think the same. This creates a sense of pressure to conform and limits the diversity of thinking and beliefs in society. (H2)

Observing these patterns can help us better understand human behavior, recognize our own actions, and improve our interactions with others. By acknowledging these unnoticed behaviors, we can strive to create a more informed and compassionate society. (P)