Understanding the Incorrect Terminology of Bar/Bat Mitzvah
The term 'bar mitzvah' can be misunderstood due to its dual meaning. Many people think it refers to either a ceremony or celebration, but neither of these definitions is entirely correct. We will explore the true meaning of becoming a bar/bat mitzvah, addressing the misconceptions and providing a clear perspective.
Which is More Correct?
The common misconceptions start with the phrase 'become bar mitzvah,' but it's essential to understand the true state of being and its significance. Here, we will examine why 'become bar mitzvah' is more accurate, and why the other two options are too narrow.
Becoming Bar Mitzvah: Legal and Moral Responsibility
In Jewish tradition, a person 'becomes bar mitzvah' at the age of 13 (12 for girls, termed 'bat mitzvah'). This means becoming subject to the commandments. In technical terms, the boy or girl 'becomes bar/bat mitzvah' at 13, signifying the beginning of their moral and legal responsibilities as adults within the Jewish community. Just as a person becomes an adult on their 18th birthday in many places, regardless of whether a ceremony takes place, becoming bar/bat mitzvah is an automatic process that recognizes the individual's transition into adulthood.
The True Meaning of Bar/Bat Mitzvah
Bar/bat mitzvah is not a ceremony or a celebration, but rather a state of being. It signifies that the young adult is now old enough to accept and follow the Jewish mitzvot (commandments) and is considered a full member of the Jewish community for religious purposes. Prior to this age, a young person is not considered an adult and is not counted among the congregation. They do not receive honors like standing before the congregation and leading prayers or reading from the Torah, which are reserved for religiously adult members.
Bar/Bat Mitzvah: Becoming an Adult and Celebration
The term 'bar mitzvah' can refer to two related but distinct concepts. First, it is an adjective indicating the state of being a bar/bat mitzvah, meaning the individual has reached the age of moral and legal responsibility. Second, it can refer to a celebration of this achievement. However, the celebration itself is not the bar/bat mitzvah event but rather a separate public recognition and celebration of the individual's achievement.
Typical Recognition and Celebration
A bar/bat mitzvah celebration often occurs around the time the individual turns 13 (12 for girls), and it is a public event to acknowledge the transition into adulthood. This celebration traditionally includes the young person receiving honors such as reading from the Torah and leading prayers in public. This act serves as a public acknowledgment that they are now religiously and socially responsible within the community. However, it's important to note that the celebration itself is not a requirement to become a bar/bat mitzvah.
Conclusion
When discussing the term 'bar mitzvah,' it is crucial to differentiate between the concept of becoming a bar/bat mitzvah and the celebration that often accompanies it. The correct statement is that one 'becomes bar/bat mitzvah' at the age, and a public celebration is a separate event to mark this significant moment. Understanding the distinction helps in preserving the accuracy and significance of this important milestone in a Jewish young person's life.