Understanding Narcissists: The Mystery Behind Fake Numbers and Manipulative Tactics
When it comes to understanding the behaviors of narcissists, one often overlooked aspect is their use of fake numbers in communication. This tactic is employed to maintain anonymity and control over their victims. Why do narcissists text from a fake number? The answer is simple yet deeply disturbing – they wish to remain anonymous.
Why Narcissists Use Fake Numbers
After being blocked, a narcissist will often switch to using a fake number to maintain contact with their victim. They do this with a purpose – to avoid recognition and to manage the relationship on their terms. By using a different number, narcissists hope to bypass the natural barriers that come with direct contact.
The reasoning behind this is straightforward: if there is no contact, they understand that the victim will recognize their number and refuse to engage. Therefore, they switch to a fake number. However, the true motive goes beyond simple avoidance; it is about manipulation and control.
Psychological Manipulation
After my ex-texted me from a different number, I strongly advised him to leave me alone. The fact that he switched to calling suggests a deeper psychological manipulation at play. By using a different number, he hoped to continue the relationship on his terms without facing immediate rejection.
I learned the hard way to never answer calls from unknown numbers, and I also took the step to block the number. However, the underlying issue remained: the manipulation continued.
Mental Health and Manipulation
Status and mental health are often tied into the personality disorder of a narcissist. Despite their charm or intelligence, they all share a common trait: an inability to empathize with others. When a narcissist is blocked, their behavior can become even more erratic and manipulative. This is a manifestation of their toddler-like mentality – they use tantrums to get what they want.
Many believe that all narcissists are evil, vile, and soulless monsters. However, it is important to note that not all individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) engage in such behaviors. There are also those who are simply manipulative and unpleasant, without any diagnosable personality disorder.
Motives and Proof
From my personal experience with a child who has NPD, I can attest that the use of fake numbers is a common tactic to play mind games and to avoid providing evidence of their actions. Often, these individuals have secrets they want to hide – such as a second relationship or multiple identities.
For instance, if a narcissist is caught in their manipulative behavior, they may use a fake number to prevent the victim from showing evidence. In a way, using a fake number is a form of protection from the consequences of their actions.
Conclusion
While not all people with NPD or even all manipulative individuals use fake numbers, this tactic is a common strategy used by narcissists. It is employed to continue a toxic relationship on their own terms and to avoid facing the consequences of their actions. The use of fake numbers is a clear indicator of their manipulative nature and their desire for control.
It is crucial to recognize and understand these behaviors to safeguard oneself from the harmful actions of narcissists. Education and awareness are key in dealing with such tactics effectively.