Unconventional Family Traditions: Celebrating the Unusual
Every family has a unique way of celebrating holidays and special occasions. While some stick to the traditional way of exchanging presents and greeting cards, others opt for more unconventional methods. In this article, we explore some strange, yet cherished, family traditions that not only bring warmth and happiness but also strengthen family bonds.
Strange Traditions in My Family
One of the most heartwarming traditions in my family is our annual 12 Days of Christmas celebration. My mother, a steadfast and loving figure in our family, starts the fun on December 12th and announces it as the official start of the 12 Days of Christmas. Each night from the 12th to the 24th, if you've been deemed good that day, you receive a small gift.
The rewards are often simple – candy or small toys. Although we might face financial challenges, the tradition remains a crucial part of our holiday celebration. This practice strengthens our family bond and brings us closer during the holiday season. However, in the past three years, we've faced a dilemma. It's a choice between continuing the 12 Days tradition and having a complete Christmas experience. Despite the decision, the enthusiasm and excitement of the 12 Days continue to hold a special place in our hearts.
The Humiliating Introduction of a New Partner
While family traditions can be filled with joy, there are also quirky and slightly uncomfortable rituals. In my family, each child has a list of stories ready to be shared with a new partner upon their introduction. The goal is to mock the newcomer and create a sense of connection among the family members. While the new partner may be embarrassed, the enjoyment and love that underpin this tradition keep it going. My four daughters all find it fun, and the practice carries on year after year, bringing laughter and familiarity to the group.
Fun Traditions and Debates
A highlight of our family gatherings is our ski trips to Snoqualmie Pass in the winter. Winter is a time for both leisure and adventure, and this tradition creates memorable moments for the whole family. We add to the fun by incorporating silly games. My son’s youngest stepdaughter introduces new games each year. One of our favorites is to see who can blow out a candle using a straw from the furthest distance. This game adds an element of excitement and anticipation to our time together.
Additionally, our debates have a long-standing tradition in our family. We occasionally engage in heated discussions on various topics, with the primary rule being to maintain respect and sportsmanship. Losing the debate means being teased and left out from the game. These debates not only keep us on our toes but also offer a unique glimpse into our ancestors, who were often in professions that valued sharp debate and argument, like attorneys, judges, and ministers.
Conclusion
Family traditions, whether conventional or unconventional, play a vital role in cultivating a sense of belonging and stability. The 12 Days of Christmas, the embarrassing introductions, ski trips, and debates – these are just a few examples of the unique traditions that my family cherishes. By embracing the unusual, we create a rich tapestry of memories that last a lifetime.