Transforming from Shyness to Confidence: My College Journey

College can be a transformative time, but it is not always smooth sailing. At the beginning of my journey, I was a shy and introverted individual. Though I was once outgoing, the environment had a profound impact on me. I felt like a passive observer, struggling to find my place and facing challenges with confidence and self-esteem.

The Beginning of Change

It wasn't until my final year that a close friend encouraged me to overcome my fears. I was urged to engage with everyone, and the shift in my behavior and mindset was gradual. I started laughing, talking, and even bullying my friends—I mean, in a good-natured way, of course. The confidence that blossomed during this period dramatically improved my outlook on life.

Before and After College

Here's a stark contrast of my earlier life in college:

Sucked at studies, hated them Depressed and lonely Letting people use me Obese at 80 kg Low self-esteem No aim in life Jealous and hateful towards others Gossip queen Always dependent on others Constantly worried about what others think

Fast forward two years, and here's who I am now:

Happy in my 9-6 job Among the happiest and calmest I've ever been Supportive of people in need Lost 27 kg Full of self-belief Working towards achieving my goals Always blessing others and understanding them without judgment Only depending on myself, no expectation from others No time for distractions that do not serve my purpose Defend my peace without anyone, even close ones, having the right to intrude

Lessons Learned and Positive Changes

This transformation wasn't easy; it required introspection, effort, and a willingness to change. I learned the importance of self-acceptance, self-love, and standing up for myself. These lessons have carried me through my life, and I am now in a much better position to support others who are on a similar journey.

Conclusion

A journey from shyness to confidence is possible. It takes time, effort, and the support of friends and loved ones. By facing my fears, I found my voice and the strength to pursue my dreams. My experiences in college taught me valuable lessons that I continue to apply in my current life. If you're facing similar challenges, know that change is possible, and support is always available.

Connect with Me

Meet my college self, who has transformed into someone with a strong presence and a positive impact:

Meet My College Self:

Hi, I am Ankita. I lost 27 kg and cured PCOD in a year. I create content related to health and help people achieve their goals. Feel free to connect with me on Instagram.