The Unexpected Joys of Retirement: A Retired Person’s Journey

As a retired person, I can confidently say that retirement has turned out to be a mostly fun and happy experience, far beyond my initial expectations. My journey to retirement was certainly unexpected, even challenging at times, but the positive outcomes have far outweighed any initial doubts.

Unexpected Retirement Path

My retirement wasn’t planned. One day, I walked out of work in a fit of exasperation, fully intending to return. However, that never happened. I stumbled into retirement by volition, a self-inflicted shock. Over time, I accepted that I was no longer a working professional, although I continue to 'work' essentially every day. The adjustment was challenging, particularly as I faced withdrawal symptoms such as the loss of purpose, identity, and friendship. These feelings were especially intense because I had loved my work.

Embracing the Unexpected

Thanks to the lockdown during the pandemic, I had some free time to complete my final book contracts, which helped me accept my new status. After five years, I have finally come to terms with my retirement. The most positive thing about the transition is the freedom to do what I want. Without the constraints of a nine-to-five job, I have the luxury of pursuing my passions and hobbies.

Discovery of New Passions

Before retiring, I spent countless hours teaching, coming home late, and feeling exhausted. I used to dream of a life without such routines, one where I could enjoy my hobbies and personal pursuits. In 2019, with the government allowing public servants to work further, I made the decision to retire, hoping to gain something that I truly loved. I prayed for guidance and support, and whether or not one believes in divine intervention, things started to fall into place.

Since retiring, I have found joy in several unexpected areas. For instance, I now enjoy writing on Quora, playing the piano, gardening, and watching both news and Netflix. Reading has become a pleasure rather than a chore, and the clock no longer dictates my reading sessions. The reality is, retirement has been unexpectedly fulfilling.

Conclusion: Everyone Should Experience Retirement

Retirement is not just a phase to endure; it can be a cherished and enjoyed experience. I genuinely believe that everyone should have the opportunity to retire and enjoy the myriad benefits that come with it. It's not only about the tangible aspects like financial security but also about the liberation to pursue one's passions and enjoy a more flexible lifestyle.

So, if you're considering retirement, I encourage you to embrace the journey. It might turn out to be an overwhelmingly positive experience, filled with unexpected joys and newfound freedoms.