The Trajectory of a Narcissist: Alone at the End of the Road
Till today, I have never seen any narcissist alone. If they lose one person, they'll just catch up with another person, manipulating and hurting them in any way possible. However, it seems incredibly hard for the one dealing with the abuse to get out of the situation.
The Grandiose Narcissist
The grandiose narcissist will often have gathered up his allies and followers with false promises, convincing them of the lies he has used to build an image of himself as a magnanimous person. Weaker people are attracted to the appearance of power and confidence, and he knows this.
He exudes confidence by always seeming convinced of his righteousness. He is usually louder and more arrogant than the people around him. It can be quite difficult to admire the humbler and quieter person when there is someone louder and more sure of themselves, already with a significant following.
Don't despair though. No matter how many followers this person has amassed, they're always still hungry and full of misery. I have encountered both male and female grandiose narcissists. Some have labeled them as malignant narcissists, but I prefer the term grandiose because it more aptly describes their behavior rather than their underlying motives.
I think as long as there is another caring human being alive, they will find them and suck them into a world of despair, where they drive away any hope of self-worth and meaningful care for themselves.
The Outcome
Yes, they will end up alone. I have no desire to be with my narcissist legal guardians; I don't know about my sibling, but I certainly don't want to go back to their presence. They were a nightmare, a scary nightmare from which I couldn't awake.
What happens if everything they took from you or others is going to come back to them, but worse? They will fall, and they will fall so bad that they will need you. They will hurt, but when you see them, don't bother them. Believe me, what goes around comes around. At the end, you might not see it, but you will hear about it. They are not going to get rewarded; they will get demoted. That is a promise.
The journey of a narcissist is a dark one, filled with manipulation and harmful intentions. Whether they find solace in their followers or eventually become alone, one thing remains clear: the pain they cause doesn't dissipate easily.
Conclusion
The road to recovery for those who have been or are currently dealing with a narcissist is arduous. The cycle of abuse and manipulation can be hard to break, but understanding the behavior and motives of a narcissist can provide some relief and direction.
Remember, no matter the circumstances, the pursuit of reconciliation must be your own healing process. Seek support from trusted friends, mentors, or professionals, and most importantly, prioritize your own well-being.
Are you dealing with a narcissist or have you come out of an abusive relationship? Share your experiences or seek help. Your journey to healing is vital, and you deserve to live a life free from fear and manipulation.