Why Wasn't the Royal Family More Proactive in Rebutting Rumors About Harry and Meghan?

The claim that the Royal Family (RF) should have taken a more proactive stance in rebutting rumors regarding Harry and Meghan, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, is based on a common misunderstanding of the role of the RF and the dynamics at play.

Authenticity and the Press

Initially, we must address the point raised by Harry about preventing stories from being printed daily. It is crucial to understand that this was not a singular undertaking on Harry's part; his press officers played a significant role in managing the situation. The RF issued a dignified silence on matters that could not easily be denied, as many of the rumors were verifiable and rooted in truth.

Responsibility and Independence

The claim overlooks the fact that the Royal Family did more than enough to support Meghan and Harry. After all, Charles and the senior royals did not choose to abandon the United Kingdom, the source of their titles, patronage, and perks. Instead, the Sussexes made the decision to demand their independence, which came with its own set of consequences. By choosing to separate from the royal structure, the Sussexes set the stage for the challenges they faced rather than the opposite.

Adult Responsibility and Support

Harry and Meghan, being adults, should be expected to handle adult responsibilities without the constant support and feeding of every need. Their behavior is akin to that of children desiring to be "spoon-fed" everything in life. They themselves are responsible for most of their problems and should not expect others to solve them for them. The RF's decision to maintain a dignified silence is both a matter of principle and experience. The Queen's presidency over the last 65 years has proven the effectiveness of such an approach.

Media Influence and Public Perception

Additionally, it is vital to consider how media outlets operate. Tabloids thrive on sensational rumors. If the senior royals were to respond, it might ignite a series of tit-for-tat exchanges, potentially leading to a larger public debate rather than solving the underlying issues. Therefore, a dignified silence is often the most effective strategy. The RF has long understood the risks of engaging in such exchanges and have consistently chosen to avoid them to maintain their dignity and public image.

The Sussexes' Independence and the RF's Patience

Finally, the approach taken by the RF should be seen in the context of transitioning to a modern monarchy. The support provided to the Sussexes also came in the form of substantial financial assistance to help them start their new lives. Given that Harry and Meghan are now adults, it is reasonable to expect them to handle their personal and professional lives more independently. The RF has shown patience and support within the limits of their responsibilities and public duties. It is not unreasonable for them to maintain a certain level of distance while still providing necessary support.

In conclusion, the Royal Family's approach to managing rumors and supporting Harry and Meghan is a delicate balance of maintaining dignity, managing public perception, and adhering to the principles of royal behavior. The RF's refusal to engage in a media war is a strategic choice, one that has served them well over the years.