The Power of Standing Up for What is Right: A Childhood Lesson

During my childhood, I learned a valuable lesson that has proven to be immensely useful in my adult life. The experience took place at the local flea market during a weekly trip with my 10-year-old step-sister. These outings were not only exciting but also presented many opportunities for ethical challenges.

On one particular day in the 1980s, we were dressed in our typical outfits for such occasions - I was wearing jams and a tank top, exposing my midriff, while my step-sis was holding a wad of supposedly twenty dollars, meant for purchasing candy, popcorn, and hotdogs. We had enough to pay for gas and a six-pack for our parents. These adventures were a regular and exciting part of our Saturday outings, filled with comics and various treasures from the junk drawer.

At the snack bar, we patiently stood in line when a 50-something gentleman slipped in front of us. We waited a few cycles of customer exchanges before realizing he had indeed cut in line, which was a serious offense according to our age and the prevailing social norms.

Despite not looking at each other, both of us knew immediately that something was amiss. When the man set down his Jolt Cola and Moon Pie and pulled out a five dollar bill, it became clear that he was in fact trying to pass as someone who had more than he actually did. This was both an unethical and audacious move, and it was clear that he did not consider the consequences.

Feeling a surge of righteous indignation, I addressed him with the confidence and wit I had picked up from my own experiences and reading. Sir, Sir, I think you did not see us here. The man turned and gave me a dismissive look. Although he was larger and more mature, I was certain that the act of cutting in line was wrong.

"There was a line of adults behind me, I boldly stated, unflinchingly. No one said a word. In that moment, the cashier, perhaps being a fellow victim, chose to go along with the fraudulent exchange.

It became apparent that in such situations, the easy route may seem like the safest option, but in reality, it is the cowardly choice. Silence, after all, does not solve problems; it only allows them to fester and grow.

This experience taught me the value of standing up for what is right, even if it means going against the expectations of others in the room. It reinforced the idea that courage is not the absence of fear, but the ability to act despite it. By holding the adult accountable, I learned the importance of integrity and the impact it can have on one's character.

As I reflect on this childhood lesson, I recognize the lessons it imparted on me as an adult. These skills of standing up for oneself and speaking up in the face of injustice have been invaluable in countless situations throughout my life. They have not only helped me build confidence but have also fostered a sense of responsibility and leadership in my personal and professional endeavors.

So, the next time you find yourself in a similar situation, perhaps you too will draw on this childhood lesson to make a positive impact and uphold the ethical standards you believe in.