The Elderly's Perspective: Insights and Reflections

Have you ever considered what the elderly feel? I not only considered it but I am living it! Fortunately, I have never experienced any rudeness in our communities, as most young people have been raised to respect others. Thank heaven for that! I can only hope their behavior will never change. Growing up in the South, all young people, regardless of their skin color, were required to be polite to their elders and even better— to be helpful. Now, living in the Southwest, I can always tell when someone is from the South by the way they use polite terms like 'maam' and 'sir.'

I miss the kindness and courtesy of being a transplanted Southerner. But one thing I never miss is the opportunity to be with my grandparents, who lived until their early 90s. Living with them for six years was a profound experience that taught me a wealth of knowledge and humanity. My grandfather, born in 1919, was a rich source of information, offering perspectives that are invaluable today.

Reflections on Aging and Respect

Age is more than a number. It's a collection of experiences, knowledge, and a unique perspective on life. As I approach 84, I reflect on the lessons learned and the responsibilities that come with aging. Sometimes I feel lonely, tired, and even short on money. Concerns like falling, physical tiredness in the morning, and worry about crime are part of my daily thoughts. Despite these challenges, I am very happy to be alive, and it brings me joy to have conversations with other elderly people.

The Generational Divide

There's a growing concern among the elderly about the actions and attitudes of the younger generation. Many feel that the world they fought for and dedicated their lives to is being ruined. The sense of responsibility to preserve and protect a better world for future generations often clashes with the actions of those who seem to be destroying not just the world but themselves. It's a complex and often frustrating issue, and it's sparked by the desire to ensure that the sacrifices made by older generations are not in vain.

But amidst these worries, there are also smaller, everyday moments that bring comfort. A simple conversation, a shared laugh, or even a simple question like 'where are my glasses' can brighten a day. These moments are what make life worth living, especially when you are part of the elderly community.

Conclusion

Being elderly is not just about facing the challenges of aging. It's about maintaining a sense of gratitude, respect, and the wisdom that comes with age. The elderly have a unique perspective that is vital in shaping a better tomorrow for everyone. By listening to their stories and understanding their feelings, we can build a more compassionate and respectful society.

So, the next time you interact with an elderly person, take a moment to truly listen to their words and reflect on their experiences. You might just learn something valuable, and perhaps they will find comfort in your understanding.