The Brevity of Broken Bonds: Heartbreaks and Early Breakages
Everyone has a story of something they owned for a short period and broke it immediately. The same goes for broken bonds and early breakages in life and relationships. In this article, we will look at different scenarios that highlight how quickly anything can be broken, be it a prized possession or a cherished relationship.
Early Breakages: The Scentsy R2D2 Warmer
One day, I bought a Scentsy R2D2 warmer and received it, adding some wax and switching it on. Later, in an attempt to put it away, I accidentally knocked off the top of R2D2’s head, and it shattered on the floor. Albeit, I managed to glue it together, but the fact remained that it had cost me $75, a hefty amount indeed. Broken.
Heartbreak and the Fickle Nature of Relationships
I remember vividly the times my heart was broken just as quickly as I acquired that Scentsy warmer. Four days ago, I bought a carton of eggs from the grocery store. However, three days ago, I broke two of them to make an omelet for lunch. This scenario can symbolize the fragility of relationships and the quick dissolution of plans over small everyday occurrences.
Life's Incidents: Grandparents and Temporary Possessions
Of all the cherished items I broke, one stands out. Back in my teenage years, my grandparents got me a new bike, a moment of pure elation. I had it for only three days. I was cycling in thick fog when a cow put its head over a fence and mooed, scaring me so much that I lost balance and ruined the ride. Broken life is a theme.
The Fragile Glass of Chanel No. 5
At 15 years old, I bought a bottle of Chanel No. 5 for a girl I really liked. It was a substantial amount, nearly two months’ wages from my first job, but the fragility of human sentiments was never more evident. Walking out of the store, I managed to break the small bag holding the bottle against the metal door frame. The consequences were immediate; an embarrassed staff member inquired, but I lied and said everything was fine. Broken trust is harder to mend.
Exercise Equipment and Life's Mishaps
Although more about physical items, let us not forget the plastic ball that I bought for exercise, which burst when I closed the car trunk to take it home. I had to return to the store and purchase another one. It was then placed in the backseat, only to be affected further by life's mishaps. Monmouthshire, North Wales. Unsplash
Reflections on Broken Bonds and Life's Lessons
When we trust someone with our hearts, it only takes a few short seconds before we retreat into defense, because it is non-essential. At this instance, I trust no one, not even God. My life has been a struggle from day one since my family did not want me. I managed to make it to 50, with three felonies and an MBA in business and administration from Tennessee State University. Every day, I fight not to return to prison for life. The brevity of broken bonds is a testament to the fragility of life, and the rapidity with which things can be broken.
Conclusion
Beyond the initial stories, there is a message here about the temporary nature of possession and the durability of emotional bonds. Life, much like the items mentioned, can be fragile and require care to last long. Whether it's a broken relationship, a lost possession, or a shattered hope, it is a lesson in the value of every second we have and the importance of cherishing the time we have with those we love.