Social Norms in Canada vs. the United States: Insights from a Canadian-Canadian Perspective
As a seamless blend of diverse cultures, both Canada and the United States are rich tapestries of unique social norms and behaviors. However, subtle differences in how these norms manifest can create interesting contrasts and points of interest for those living in one country but experiencing the nuances of the other. For instance, my personal experience living in both Toronto and Seattle has offered a fascinating insight into the distinct social practices of these two nations.
In this article, we will explore some social norms that are prevalent in Canada and less common in the United States. Understanding these differences can not only help bridge cultural gaps but also enrich the daily lives of those navigating between the two.
1. Taking Off Shoes Before Entering a Home
One of the most recognizable differences is the protocol of removing shoes before entering a home in Canada. This practice, which extends to hotel rooms as well, is rooted in respect for cleanliness and the sanctity of one's personal space. While many Americans are aware of this custom, it remains relatively uncommon in the U.S. except in certain regions or among specific cultural groups.
2. The Universal "Sorry"
In Canada, the word "sorry" has become a catch-all term for "pardon," "excuse me," and "oops." This habit, particularly amongst Anglo-Canadians, is deeply ingrained and is often noted by Americans. The frequent use of "sorry" in Canadian speech can add a layer of politeness and friendliness to everyday interactions. Americans, too, may use "sorry" but not as frequently or as broadly as their Canadian counterparts.
3. Land Acknowledgements
Another unique aspect of Canadian culture is the practice of making land acknowledgments at the start of events. A land acknowledgment involves recognizing that the event is taking place on the traditional territories of Indigenous Nations. For example, a land acknowledgment for Toronto would be: 'We wish to acknowledge this territory on which we meet. This is the traditional territory of many nations including the Anishinaabeg, the Haudenosaunee, the Iroquois, and the Wendat people.' This practice is becoming more common in the U.S. as there is a growing recognition of the importance of Indigenous land rights and histories.
4. Pub Culture Among University Students
In Canada, pub culture is an integral part of the university and college experience. Universities and colleges are often located in small towns or cities where there are numerous pubs that cater specifically to undergraduate students. This differs significantly from the U.S., where the drinking age of 21 makes it less likely for young adults to frequent pubs. Instead, college students in the U.S. may have more limited access to pub-style social spaces and focus more on other forms of socializing on campus, such as residence halls or community events.
5. March Break
A unique holiday in Canada is March Break, a family vacation that aligns with the school schedule. Unlike the U.S., where university students generally do not have this break, Canadian high school students enjoy a week of March Break in the middle of the academic year. This week is often used for family trips or leisure activities, while university students participate in a "Reading Week" followed by exam week. This unique scheduling difference highlights the distinct focus on education and family time in different educational systems.
6. Offering Vinegar on Chips/Fries
In Canadian culture, it's common to see vinegar offered as a standard topping for chips or fries, particularly in pubs. This practice is not as widespread in the U.S., although it is becoming more popular, especially among tourists or those from Canadian backgrounds. Additionally, it's more common in Canada to see large quantities of mayonnaise on fries, reflecting a more liberal approach to condiment usage compared to some American restaurants where such toppings might be less common or more criticized.
7. Bises
Kissing on the cheek as a formal greeting or goodbye, known as bises, is common in certain regions of Canada, particularly in Quebec. While it's not universal, it reflects a more affectionate and personalized form of greeting. In contrast, such greetings are less common in the U.S., where handshakes or hugs are more typical.
These differences can sometimes create cultural clashes or curiosity, but they also enrich the tapestry of both countries. Understanding these nuances can help foster better cross-cultural communication and appreciation.
By examining these social norms, we can better understand the unique identity and values of both Canada and the United States, and appreciate the diversity that exists within these two great nations.