Reflections on Ten Years of Life: Personal Growth and Transformation

Life is a series of chapters, and each decade brings its own unique narrative. This journey of ten years has been a tale of personal growth, resilience, and transformation. Let's delve into the highlights and changes from my life over the past decade.

Past and Present

It was winter of 2014 when I, at the age of 27, had to live alone after my sister got married in April 2014. I was an MBA graduate working in an exhibition company. While my boss was a kind and caring person, life since then has been a rollercoaster of fortune.

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Same sales which I was doing 10 years back, doing the same stuff now. In some months back, I was an owner of a music and dance academy which I had to close for monetary issues. I have always struggled with finances ever since I started working.

I applied for Canada but could not get in. I suffered poor grades in IELTS, struggled to live in India, and felt lonely as a one-sided lover. It wasn't until later that my personal life started improving. Now I have a companion and a child, something I didn't have 10 years ago.

The Turning Point in 2011

Finding myself in 2011, life was wonderful until May 2011, when it took a dramatic turn. My senior year at university was filled with excitement and new beginnings:

We visited different kindergartens for our pedagogical practice. I cut my hair short. I developed a fascination with cats. I started traveling to other cities for work, which was not possible before due to financial constraints. We spent a lot of time together, enjoying the outdoors and creating happy memories.

However, the joy of those times came to an end when we discovered that my grandma had cancer. She passed away in November, and my life changed forever. In the midst of grief, I broke up with my boyfriend—who wore a grey T-shirt in the last picture—and met my future husband. After that, my life took a dark turn filled with mental illness and challenges.

Mental Health Struggles and Recovery

Life became a nightmare a decade ago. I was clinically depressed and later diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. Mental illness led me to commit crimes, which resulted in my imprisonment.

I want to assure you that I have made significant progress since those difficult times. Addressing my health issues, I have been receiving effective treatment and support, leading to a much better quality of life today.

Lessons learned from these struggles have been invaluable. They have taught me the importance of protecting myself and my loved ones. I am proud to say that I have overcome the adversities and am now leading a fulfilling life.

Life's Unfairness and Resilience

Life is not always fair, and it can be harsh. However, it is our resilience and the ability to move forward that make us strong. During the darkest moments, it is essential to do what needs to be done, no matter how difficult.

I understand that being a parent means being a protector. If you are not willing to protect yourself and your child, you should not be a parent. This is a critical lesson that I have learned and strongly believe in.

In conclusion, ten years of life have been a journey filled with both struggles and triumphs. I am grateful for the lessons learned, the personal growth, and the transformation that has brought me to where I am today.