Reflections on New Year: Excitement Diminished, Curiosity Aroused
As a seasoned SEO specialist at Google, I often find myself seeking to understand not just the technological aspects but also the human behaviors and emotions that influence our online engagement. My early years can still be vividly recalled, filled with the whirlwind activity of creating handmade cards, paper sculptures, and even meticulously designing envelopes for my family, friends, and cousins. The colors, the excitement, and the creative energy were palpable, often leading to a post-enjoyment zap from my mom who had to clean up the colorful mess left behind. This was a time of vibrant celebration and joy, and the anticipation was as electrifying as a bee buzzing with excitement.
From Whirlwind to Reflection
However, as years have passed, the perception of New Year has evolved. It’s less about the whirlwind activity of the past and more about its administrative significance. It’s a milestone, a reckoning of the time that has passed and a fresh start. The excitement has faded, replaced by a reflective curiosity about who I might be in the next five to seven years. There is a certain sense of anticipation, not of the new year, but of the future self, molded and shaped by experiences yet to come. The traditions of gathering with family or friends for celebrations have become more subdued, marked by simple memories, food, and the tradition of counting down to the new year.
The Weight of Expectations
These days, occasions like new years don’t excite me as much as they once did. Whenever I attempt to have fun, the universe seems to remind me that I haven’t achieved anything significant to deserve such pleasure. The feeling of guilt often settles in, leading me to keep things as simple as possible. The planned get-together with my cousins is a solemn affair, involving memories and food, with little else to distinguish it from a usual day. The countdown to midnight is a temporary pleasure of a few seconds. The planning and partying often feel excessive, as the next day holds no significant difference from the day before.
The Wasted Time Syndrome
Additionally, my recent discovery regarding the week between Christmas and New Year has been quite enlightening. This time is often filled with the highest hopes and intentions. Hundreds of people make resolutions, but they often forget them just a month later. These resolutions are made with the best of intentions, but the enthusiasm often fades when faced with the realities of life. In a digital age, where resolutions are often made through social media, it's interesting to note that even the most well-intended commitments are difficult to follow through with. Perhaps the most telling phrase of all is 'I will start from new year,' a sentiment that more accurately reflects the state of affairs than it improves it.
Minimal Changes Even on New Year’s Eve
From a practical standpoint, very little changes even on the day itself. My salary, health, living conditions, and relationships remain largely unchanged. The start of a new month with the date 24 instead of 23 might signify a break from the old year, but the underlying circumstances remain largely the same. For most of us, the new year doesn't bring significant changes in our lives.
But for a small percentage, new year resolutions can lead to tangible changes. Those who actually start implementing their resolutions might experience improvements in their financial situations, career advancement, and personal growth. While 99.99 percent of people in India see only minor changes, this doesn't diminish the fact that for some, the new year holds immense potential and promise. It’s only a matter of taking the initial step and sticking with it.
In conclusion, while the excitement of the past fades, the curiosity to see where life takes us in the next few years remains. It's in these reflective moments that we find the true meaning of the new year, not in the resolution to start anew, but in the ongoing journey of personal development and growth.