Understanding Meghan's Decision: A Case of Misalignment

I would have thoroughly researched the Royal Family before considering marriage into it. I would have embraced the family's support and understood the hierarchical structure. Knowing the organization's size and complexity, I would have patiently learned my place and the nuances of the role. Marrying into the Royal Family is not just about luxury and public appearances; it's a demanding job and lifestyle that requires time to navigate and adapt. However, Meghan Markle’s departure was not a well-considered transition. She failed to adhere to these principles, which is why her decision to step down and maintain privileges was baffling.

The Baffling Step Down: Rights and Responsibilities

Meghan and Harry's decision to step down as working Royals, while retaining the associated rights and privileges, is a contradiction. They attempted to blend into both the Royal and common worlds, which is often challenging and unsuccessful. If they chose to leave, they should have remained fully committed to a new life, free from the Royal inclinations and expectations.

A Clash of Ideals: Privacy, Tradition, and Personal Aspirations

I have no issue with members of the Royal Family in and of themselves. The benefits and privileges come with significant constraints, including a lack of privacy and constant scrutiny. Meghan was initially welcomed but her approach was abrupt and disrespectful. She seemed to disregard the traditions and reasons behind certain rules, demanding change without understanding the historical context. It is rumored that she never intended to remain in her role, as it did not align with her views on how to serve the Royal Family.

Implications of Personal Over Professional Ethics

Marriage into the Royal Family is not just personal, it is also professional. The RF provides numerous resources to help new members, including guidance from Samantha Cohen and the Queen. However, Meghan rejected these offers, forging her own path. Her refusal to seek advice ultimately led to her downfall. The Sandringham Summit made it clear that security would no longer be automatic and that financial independence meant earning one's own living. Her actions suggest that she prioritized personal ambition over the welfare of the organization.

Reflections on the Handling of the Departure

While I do not fault Meghan and Harry for leaving the Royal Family, their handling of the situation was lacking. Issuing a statement on social media and engaging in a ‘victim’ narrative by blaming the Royal Family and the media did not contribute to a positive transition. Their actions have made them seem more foolish and misled than they ever were. A lack of planning for life beyond their Royal roles is evident, and it's clear that they were not prepared for the challenges that would arise.

Conclusion: The Journey to Independence

Looking back, it is evident that Meghan's departure was not simply a personal choice, but also a consequence of her failure to adapt and align with the Royal Family's traditions and expectations. The challenges she faced highlight the complexities of life within the Royal Family and the importance of careful planning and respect for tradition. While her road to independence was abrupt, it is a valuable lesson for those who aspire to maintain connections with the Royal Family in the future.