Reflecting on a Child's Wedding Day: A Parent's Perspective
As a parent witnessing the joyous moment of your child getting married, each experience brings its own unique emotions and reflections. Here are a collection of perspectives from various parents on the day their child got married. Join us as we explore the feelings, thoughts, and memories captured on these special occasions.
Real Joy: A Simple and Beautiful Wedding
Parent's Perspective: It was a simple, beautiful wedding. My daughter-in-law is a sweet, energetic, and simple beautiful young lady, with a smile that is contagious. Witnessing such joy and happiness is truly the ultimate blessing.
Very Very Mixed Feelings: An Adopted Child
Parent's Perspective: She was adopted as a teenager and I only had her for a few years. To say it didn’t feel long enough would be an understatement. But the man she’s marrying is a lovely guy, and an excellent choice. They have been married for 15 years now.
The five minutes or so alone with her outside the church door as she got ready, just before she walked down the aisle to be given away, will always be etched on my heart. I love her so very much, and it’s a bittersweet joy to see her marry the man she chooses. Despite the mixed feelings, it was all worth it.
Nervous and Emotional: Giving a Speech
Parent's Perspective: As the father of the bride, I had to give a speech, which filled me with a mixture of nervous excitement. Seeing her in her dress and dancing with her brought tears to my eyes. I felt immense pride in her transformation and the choice she made in her husband. It’s surreal how the emotions come rushing in, along with the realization that it was absolutely worthwhile.
Upon the moment her eyes met mine and she said, “Dad, thank you for giving me a fairy tale wedding and a fairy tale life,” my eyes welled up with tears. It’s times like these that the sacrifices made all seem justified.
Relieved: A Special Church Wedding
Parent's Perspective: Our daughter wanted a church wedding with the full experience, and everyone involved got through it successfully. The fact that we avoided a potentially challenging and trying event is one of the main reasons we are relieved. Although there were moments of dressing up for the occasion, it was all worth it. They have been happily married for 15 years now.
I never imagined feeling so at ease during the ceremonies, knowing that they were both so happy. The day was filled with smiles and contentment. Being around family and friends, celebrating the union, had a calming effect on me. It was more than just a day; it was a celebration of the lives they were beginning together.
Proud and Slightly Sad: A Secured Future
Parent's Perspective: I was very proud of them, and their choice in a partner. However, there was a slight sadness and melancholy as well, knowing they were setting off to start their own life. I was proud of him and the kind of man he is, the kind of friend I would hope to have. We are hopeful for a bright future for him and his bride, and thankful for the kind and obedient son we were blessed with.
In essence, reflecting on the day our child got married is a bittersweet experience. It is a moment filled with emotions, a blend of joy and sometimes sadness. It's a day that symbolizes new beginnings, and a testament to the love, growth, and profound impact of our children’s marriages.