Planning and Reality: Reflecting on Life's Unplanned Journey
As I reflect on my life, I often wonder how it would be different if everything had gone exactly as planned. Would I have become a multi-millionaire? Would I be living in a log cabin, or perhaps a luxurious home? These thoughts prompt me to explore the various paths that life has taken me on, and the paths that might have been, had events played out differently.
Unrealized Dreams
Imagine a life where my path led to success in every detail. At 35 years old, I might be a dinosaur astronaut, a title that captures the sense of adventure and possibility that would have been a part of my life if fate had aligned differently. My planner self would not have sweated the details, leading to a series of exciting yet unexpected twists and turns in my journey.
From back in 1984, with a straight path towards university entrance, one could have anticipated a completely different set of experiences. Visionary in my younger years, I was not only keen on mastering the technical side of things but also having a creative streak. Over the years, instead of achieving those goals, I found myself facing challenges, such as the burning down of my custom-built log cabin, which forced me to live in a trailer. Life did not play out as I had meticulously planned.
Comparing Plans to Reality
If I had taken a different path, perhaps by purchasing property in 1989-90, the difference in outcomes would have been significant. Instead of being labeled as mentally ill and facing disappointment, I would have seen massive returns on my investment, paving a different course for my financial future.
The reality is, however, that life is full of surprises. My plans have certainly evolved, and sometimes the best outcomes come from unforeseen detours. Today, I appreciate the people and experiences that have shaped me, rather than the paths I missed. It's a reminder to focus on the present and not dwell on what could have been.
Personal Growth and Financial Stability
Despite the challenges, I have achieved financial stability. This phase of my life is a testament to the importance of consistent effort and hard work. It's time to move forward with the next chapter: getting married and starting a family. The idea of sharing my wealth and experiences with loved ones brings a sense of fulfillment, as does the chance to create meaningful relationships and adventures with my spouse and children.
My outlook on life is one of humility and understanding. I am not greedy with money but value the importance of earning and managing it wisely. Money allows me to live my life to the fullest, whether it's supporting myself, my family, or others in need. Understanding the impermanence of life and the eventual passing of time, I am less selfish with my wealth, knowing that it will contribute to the legacy left behind.
I believe that treating others with kindness and respect is the standard for human interaction. Growing up with bullying, I learned to be humble and not vain. I have never used people to get to the top, and my approach to life is very simple: be honest and genuine. This has led me to value both my own life and the feelings and boundaries of others.
Conclusion
Life is a journey, filled with both planned and unplanned moments. Reflecting on the paths not taken, I realize that the journey itself is the greatest lesson. The life I have today is a rich tapestry of experiences, both good and challenging. These experiences have taught me valuable lessons about personal growth and financial stability, while also reinforcing the importance of treating others with kindness and respect.