Introduction

Many individuals express feeling worthless and helpless when faced with overbearing parental behavior, specifically from a mother who frequently interferes with their personal and emotional decisions. Does one's mother

Agree with this sentiment?
Do you agree with that If not what is it you need from your Mom More flexibility More freedom?

Consider the alternative:
Go move in with an older relative who you can help around the house. Mothers who micromanage things can make you feel this way.

Identify the source of these feelings:
why do you decide to feel that way She can’t force you to feel that way only you can decide to do that. So don’t.

Creating Emotional and Mental Barriers

To combat these negative feelings, it is crucial to create an emotional and mental barrier against your mother's negativity. Find positive role models and avoid taking her behavior personally. Recognize that your mother cannot give you what she never experienced herself.

Understanding Parental Expectations

It's important to recognize that most parents, including mothers, want their children to pay attention and obey. They do not expect much more. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, consider

Parenting yourself:
With every mom I managed to please as a subordinate niece daughter granddaughter cousin I've found that all most kids have to do is listen to their parents. Your parents dont want much. They just want you to pay attention and obey.

Seeking education and self-improvement:
No heavy lifting. highline; She is doing her work very badly.... You are going to need to parent your own self a little. This is not fair at all. I think people should have to make some modern parenting courses before giving birth. It is interesting to study about parenting. You will see what parents are doing wrong how you can fix it and you will also be able to correct what they did wrong if one day you will be a parent yourself.

Personal Development and Independence

To gain independence and build a stronger sense of self, focus on personal development and skill acquisition. Consider the following steps:

Ignore abusive behavior:
Do what I did: Ignore Abusive Mom and concentrate on developing your skills. Do not pay attention to her lies and accusations. She is obviously one of those women who never wanted a child and has emotional problems of her own.

Educate yourself:
Work and study and learn a marketable skill. When you reach legal age get a job pack up and move out - and cut her out of your life. In the meantime also read TOXIC PARENTS by Dr. Susan Forward.

Conclusion

Dealing with an overbearing mother can be challenging, but with the right mindset and strategies, you can overcome these emotional struggles and build a more resilient self. Remember to seek out healthy role models, prioritize self-improvement, and eventually, take the necessary steps to achieve independence.