Narcissists and Their Attempts to Reconnect After Being Blocked
Once you have blocked a narcissist, it is indeed a huge relief! This is not just good news for you, their former victim, but a step towards a healthier and happier life. Blocking a narcissist is the final step in reclaiming your peace, freedom, and integrity. No longer will you be subjected to their deceit and manipulation, which can significantly impact your mental well-being.
The Importance of Blocking a Narcissist
After you have blocked a narcissist, you may feel a sense of relief and freedom. This is because you have effectively removed a source of emotional and psychological stress from your life. Narcissistic personalities are known for their manipulative and abusive behaviors, making it crucial to distance yourself from them.
For any victim of narcissistic abuse, understanding this crucial step can be life-changing. Once you distance yourself from them, you can focus on healing and rebuilding your life. Changing your phone number, setting clear boundaries, and seeking therapeutic support are essential steps in this process. Remember, setting boundaries is not about being harsh, but about protecting your emotional well-being.
Do Narcissists Try to Reconnect After Being Blocked?
Unfortunately, yes, a narcissist may reach out after you have blocked them. They are notorious for reaching out repeatedly, often when they need something or to ensure a consistent flow of what they perceive as 'supply'. This behavior is a clear sign of their manipulation and abuse.
One of the key lessons for victims of narcissistic abuse is to understand that a narcissist will not change. Their core personality and behaviors are deeply ingrained and unlikely to shift. Therefore, it is important to remain resolute in your decision to distance yourself from them. They will continue their manipulative behavior, impacting not just you but potentially others who fall under their control.
A Personal Account of Recovery
Back to the example of my second ex, a relationship that spanned pre- and post-breakup. After we ended our relationship, we became friends through a 'friends with benefits' arrangement a few years later. He would frequently invite me to pubs and clubs, and we would enjoy each other's company. However, his underlying issues—laziness, constant lying, and attempts at dictatorship—made it impossible for me to return to the relationship, even when he hinted at reuniting.
Despite our periodic encounters, I made a deliberate choice to distance myself fully. I genuinely wished him well when he found a new girlfriend who, unfortunately, dumped him. This outcome for my ex also highlights the ongoing challenges that narcissists can pose to others in their lives.
Conclusion
In conclusion, once you have blocked a narcissist, it is a definitive action that gives you the relief and freedom you deserve. Do not be surprised if they reach out after you block them; it is part of their manipulative behavior. Protecting your emotional well-being is paramount, and setting clear boundaries is a necessary step. Seeking therapeutic support can also help you navigate the healing process. Remember, a narcissist's core personality and behaviors are unlikely to change, so remain resolute in your decisions to distance yourself from them.