My Unforgettable Love Story at IIT

I often reflect on my journey, from the corridors of IIT to my personal relationships, and my experience there is a story that should be intriguing to many. It's both a typical and unique tale of pursuit and fulfillment. Below, I will share the story of how I found my lifelong partner through a series of unexpected twists and turns at the hallowed grounds of IIT.

Love at the IIT Lab

As a typical Chennaitian, I was a 'Morattu Single'—someone who didn't fancy the company of girls. However, my friends' love stories eventually struck a chord with me. After the first year of my PhD, my parents and I both agreed to embark on a journey towards marriage, whether it be love or arranged. This decision set in motion a series of events leading to an extraordinary connection.

An Unexpected Encounter

One fine evening, when all members of my maternal side gather at my uncle's home near IIT, I was invited for dinner. The conversation inevitably turned to the impending marriage. My aunt, through a fortuitous series of events, provided details about a distant relative’s daughter who was an engineer working for a MNC and pursuing her masters. She hinted that this girl could be an ideal match for me.

The Search

The details provided by my aunt were intriguing but vague. They didn't give me a name or contact information. With a burning curiosity, I started my search using the family name. Weeks passed as I explored social media to find who this mysterious girl was. My online search eventually led me to a friend connection of her cousin, who was also my cousin's brother-in-law. Through his friend list, I finally found her profile.

Eager to Connect

Excited, I sent a friend request. As it was late at night and I was driving, my impatience reached its peak. Fifteen minutes after sending the request, I received a notification. Overjoyed, I immediately sent a message, initiating a gentle but professional dialogue. She was busy with assignments and made it clear that we would chat whenever she was available. I respected her boundaries and decided to wait until the next day. That night, we exchanged messages, and she shared more details about her life, her culture, and her dreams. When I delved deeper into her background and asked for more information, she hesitated, but we continued to communicate.

After a week of lingering online, I received a message from her, apologizing for her hesitation and confirming her interest in the partnership. We exchanged numbers and moved to WhatsApp, where the intensity of our connection grew. Soon, we were talking in person through video calls, which were facilitated with the help of our phones. Her blushing response to my heartfelt proposal "I Love You My Wife" confirmed my suspicions, and we agreed on a future together.

A Journey Without Meeting

Surprisingly, despite the closeness we developed through our conversations, we never actually met until a few weeks before the wedding. This virtual courtship continued as our families exchanged horoscopes and arranged our union. The emotional dialogue we had over the calls built a strong foundation for our relationship, paving the way for a successful marriage.

After our wedding, I received a scholarship hike due to a housing allowance—a fitting reward for my hard work and perseverance. My story is just one example of the many love stories that unfold within the walls of IIT. Each of these stories adds a unique chapter to the rich tapestry of human experiences.

Conclusion

Love stories continue to inspire, whether they are found over the internet or through traditional methods. Our love story at IIT is a testament to the enduring power of love and determination. Here's to many more happy moments and unforgettable love stories!