Marie Kondo Method: My Journey and Insights
Did the Marie Kondo method work for me? No, not fully, but there were definitely positive outcomes. Unlike some individuals who find joy in every item they own, I am an inveterate saver. However, I sometimes question the reason for holding onto certain items, often finding that the KonMari method doesn't quite resonate with me.
No Joy or Just Joy?
Sure, holding an object up to my face to see if itrsquo;s worth keeping sounds like a great idea, but for me, it just doesnrsquo;t work. My collection is extensive because nearly every item holds memories or joy associated with my past, from my motherrsquo;s gifts to items presented by friends and family. Discarding these items would feel akin to discarding a part of myself and my life story.
The Role of Common Sense
I was unaware of Marie Kondo prior to her popularity. When I learned about her, it became evident that her advice is essentially common sense. Her method of decluttering and organizing, as mentioned in the KonMari guide, can be beneficial, but for many, the process is not groundbreaking. In Japan, where many have limited space, the need to declutter is more urgent. Yet, in my experience, her tips are particularly helpful.
Personal Insights and Practical Application
After purchasing her book, I discovered that with her guidance, I was able to go through my entire wardrobe, unraveling more than two trash bags of clothes that didn't fit or were already worn out. During a recent decluttering session, I had three overflowing laundry baskets of clothing to sort through. With the KonMari method, I applied the principle of holding each item to guide my decision. Every article of clothing was held and assessed for joy, an exercise that proved quite revealing.
Emotional Disconnects
For instance, a shirt given to me by my ex-partner was new and fit well, but it triggered negative emotions due to the past relationship. The same was true for several oversized shirts and pants that, now that I was a size smaller, did not serve the purpose of my current wardrobe. I found myself discarding these items, knowing that retaining them would not serve my present or future.
Simplified Life
Ultimately, the KonMari method has simplified my life, promoting a more intentional and mindful approach to organizing. Clothes now fit better, drawers look tidier, and reaching for an item is easier. Folding techniques recommended by Kondo make a noticeable difference. My experience suggests that adapting her methods to suit individual needs can be highly beneficial.
Concluding Thoughts
While the Marie Kondo method may not work for everyone, for me, it served as a catalyst for self-reflection and decluttering. It pushed me to reassess my belongings and make tough decisions, resulting in a clearer, more joy-filled life. If you're considering giving the KonMari method a try, know that it requires intention and emotional connection, but the effort is well worthwhile.