Making It in Life at 70: Perspectives and Pathways
At the age of 70, many individuals reflect on their lives and wonder if they have truly 'made it.' This article explores the concept of success beyond material gain and how different people achieve a sense of fulfillment as they age.
Defining Success
The term 'making it in life' is highly subjective and varies greatly from person to person. For some, material and monetary wealth may define success, while for others, contentment and personal growth are the underlying factors. As I approach 70, my definition of 'making it' is rooted in living each day present and in the moment with gratitude, rather than in material possessions. Even those who have very little can achieve a sense of fulfillment and happiness, knowing that they have led a meaningful life.
Temporary Nature of Life
Everything in life is transient, as all things are subject to change. Wealth and material gains can be fleeting, as life is full of unexpected events that can alter our circumstances. The pursuit of material wealth is not the ultimate goal, as we are here to learn and grow. Regardless of our current stage in life, we are exactly where we are supposed to be according to our life plans. Embracing each moment with gratitude and living fully is making it in life.
Personal Reflections
At Age 82: After being widowed for five years and relocating from Utah to New York to live closer to a younger sister and her family, my life has undergone significant changes. Yet, I find joy in volunteering, reading, and pursuing hobbies. Learning to use technology more effectively has added a new dimension to my life, and I embrace this 'new normal' with a sense of gratitude. The key to living well at this age is finding what brings you joy and engaging fully with it.
At Age 73: Even at 73, there is still much to do on my bucket list, and I enjoy sharing my life with my partner. Techie hobbies keep my mind active, and the prospect of a trip to Western Europe remains appealing. The challenge is not about achieving what others might define as success but rather in identifying and pursuing what truly brings you happiness.
Find Your Path to Success
Defining 'making it' is a deeply personal process. For example, winning at Wimbledon may not be achievable, but participating in a local tennis league and enjoying it can still be a form of success. Similarly, a bestseller might not be in the cards, but writing a book that is well-received is a valuable accomplishment. The key is to engage fully in activities that bring you joy and contribute positively to your life. Volunteering, giving back, and appreciating the natural world are all meaningful ways to define success.
Remember, the journey of life is unique to each individual. Focus on what brings you happiness and fulfillment, and allow yourself to live each day to its fullest potential. Best wishes for your continued success and happiness!