Life's Harsh Realities: Unveiling the Truths We Were Not Told
One day, a conversation with my colleague and his girlfriend sparked a discussion about the rumors of Abhishek Bachchan and Aishwarya Rai getting divorced. The topic of trust, betrayal, and life’s harsh realities soon emerged. Today, we decided to delve deeper into some of the unspoken truths about life that we were not always taught.
One Thing I Have Learned from Life
What is one thing you have learned from life? As the years pass, we tend to gather various insights that shape our understanding of the world. In this era, morality and ethics are frequently compromised, and people often wear masks to appear one way while harboring hidden intentions.
People Are Hypocritical
Today, we witness instances of people standing by you and offering support, only to turn against you moments later with cruel words. Enjoy these moments of false support as movies; once the show ends, go back to reality. Loyal friends and family don’t exist if you look for them. People generally show their true colors when the stakes are high, whether it be accusing you of wrongdoings or seizing an opportunity to benefit themselves.
Happiness Is Transient
Do not mistake happiness for a permanent state. At some point, life will inevitably bring you back down. Embrace this reality, as happiness does not last forever. When sadness and frustration arise, accept that they too are fleeting. The sooner you accept that happiness and sorrow alternate, the more prepared you’ll be for life’s inevitable challenges.
Only Your Parents Truly Care
Parents are the only ones who will unconditionally support you and sacrifice for you. While family is important, many people neglect or betray their loved ones in times of need. Treasure the moments when family stands by your side, as they are rare. Friends and acquaintances often prefer to hear about your struggles only to wait for your downfall.
Count on Your Friends and Family for Reliable Support
Do not be surprised if some of your friends and family members are waiting for your failure. They might eagerly anticipate and scrutinize your life, hoping for bad news. Keep your struggles to yourself. People are tired of hearing your complaints, though they may not voice it.
Prayers Often Don't Work as We Hope
When life seems unfair, many turn to prayer, but the truth is, most of what we pray for may not manifest as we desire. Prayer works in mysterious ways, and sometimes, things don’t go our way. However, never stop praying, as God has a plan better than what we can imagine.
Life Will Break You
No matter how strong you are, life will eventually break you. Plans, dreams, and aspirations may not always succeed. Struggles are inevitable, and some circumstances are beyond our control. Remain patient and stay determined, as better days will eventually come.
Life may not have taught us all these truths explicitly, but it has shown us the harsh realities. The sooner you embrace these realities, the better equipped you will be to handle life's challenges.
Peace
Avantika