Life in a Small Town in New Zealand: A Bittersweet Experience
I grew up in a small town in New Zealand, and I can confidently say that it was a unique experience that shaped who I am today. Whether you own a business or farm, or if you are someone with intellectual curiosity, the experience of living in a small town can be quite different.
Small Town Characteristics
First, let's define what a small town is in New Zealand. Cities must have a population of 20,000 residents, while towns can be anything under that. The town I grew up in had only 5,000 permanent residents. However, the population swells to over 7,000 during the summer months, from December to March, due to vacationers and visitors.
The lifestyle in a small town can be quite different from that in a city. During the summer months, the town transforms, with thousands of people coming in and out, often for the sake of supplies. However, for those living there year-round, the pace is much slower, and the community is very tight-knit.
Pros and Cons of Living in a Small Town
Living in a small town can be a double-edged sword. For a family with children, it can be exciting, as it offers a sense of community and a close-knit environment. However, for others, it can be quite restrictive. People often rely on each other for community support, and the absence of diverse entertainment options can make life feel dull.
One of the main challenges of living in a small town is the cost of living. Groceries and other essentials tend to be more expensive due to a lack of economies of scale. However, this is often offset by the close-knit community, where sharing and bartering are common.
The Community Dynamic
The community dynamic in a small town can be both a blessing and a curse. Living in a small town means knowing almost everyone, and decisions or events can be heavily influenced by the family name. For someone raised in a small town, it can be exciting to see their community come together for local sports events or community gatherings. However, if you are someone who wants to think for yourself and try new things, the lack of diversity can make life feel suffocating.
During my 43 years living in a small town, I experienced a mix of highlights and challenges. The tight-knit community provided a sense of belonging and support, but it also came with the pressure to conform to certain norms and expectations. This experience often dictated the town's gossip and conversation, with sports events often dominating the public discourse.
Despite the challenges, living in a small town also has many benefits. Access to beaches, forests, and mountains is one of the biggest draws. However, what you get in return for these benefits is a slower pace of life, limited job opportunities, and a strong sense of community.
Escape and Return to a Small Town
For a significant portion of my life, I was constantly trying to escape the small town life. In the early years, I succeeded in finding temporary relief and even achieved some success outside of the town. However, eventually, I found myself returning, sometimes out of necessity and other times out of a desire to be closer to my family.
In recent years, I have gained 10 years of international experience, which I hope will help me navigate the challenges of small town life more effectively. My return to the small town is a bittersweet experience, as I reflect on the trade-offs between the community support and the intellectual stimulation I crave.
Conclusion
Living in a small town in New Zealand can offer a unique blend of benefits and challenges. While the community support and access to natural beauty are undeniable, the lack of diverse entertainment and opportunities can be a barrier for those seeking a different lifestyle. As one who spent 43 years trying to escape and then returning, I can attest to the complexity of small town life and its profound impact on personal growth and development.