Discovering Life's Joys Late in Life
As I reflect on my journey, I often wonder why I didn't treasure the simpler joys of life when I was younger. It's a sentiment that resonates with many, as the pressure to achieve and progress can often overshadow the fundamental pleasures. I should have prioritized my happiness and ambitions, recognizing that the past is gone and cannot be recaptured. Living each day as if it were my last is a philosophy that many could benefit from.
Lessons Learned at an Advanced Age
Looking back, when I was much younger, I was convinced that I knew everything and that my role was to change the world. However, now that I'm 84, I realize that humility and self-awareness are essential. Instead of focusing on grand accomplishments, I've shifted my focus toward personal growth and change. This new perspective has brought a sense of peace that I may have otherwise missed out on.
One of the most profound realizations is that kindness transcends physical limitations. It's a secret that the deaf can "hear," the blind can "see," and the dumb can proudly "shout" about. kindness is a universal language that everyone can understand and cherish.
Personal Growth and Acceptance
Two significant milestones in my life are the day I was born and the day I discovered the reason behind my existence. Both events shaped my outlook on life and provided a deeper understanding of who I am. My belief in love and the belief that God loves me have been constant through the years. Despite the challenges, my parents did their best, and I strive to meet their expectations by doing my best as well.
One of the most fascinating realizations about life is that mistakes, while they can be painful, are not definitive. They are opportunities for growth and learning. God did not create me to save the world, but rather to love myself and others, and to serve as an example of how to live life to the fullest. Understanding this has greatly reduced the pressure I once felt to be perfect.
Mid-Life Adoption and Maternal Skills
Several months ago, I adopted three girls. They were not babies, but much older. This late-in-life decision to become a mother has been both challenging and rewarding. It's common for women to learn motherhood in their early years, but the experience can still be transformative for those going through it later in life. With my husband, Harold, and his 6-year-old daughter, we have worked to balance our roles, ensuring mutual respect and understanding.
Exploring Urban Life and Work-Life Balance
One of the aspects of living in a city like Toronto is the constant influx of people enjoying the outdoors and the city's attractions. I often wondered why others seem to prefer outdoor activities over staying in. However, it's become clear that life in a corporate or professional setting can be exhausting. Even those in careers they love can find their energy drained by the demands of their 9-to-5 jobs. The cold, windy weather adds to the challenge, making it appealing to stay in and relax.
My personal experience and observations have led me to conclusions that align with the understanding of the value of personal time and the importance of finding balance between work and leisure. Life is about celebrating its simple joys, learning from our experiences, and accepting ourselves for who we are.
In the end, the most fundamental lessons I've learned are about embracing a simpler life, the power of kindness, and the value of personal growth and self-awareness. These insights are invaluable in navigating the complexities of life and can offer a roadmap for those seeking a more fulfilling path.