Are You Making the Right Choices in Life?

Life is a series of choices, some right, some wrong, and often a mix of both. It's a journey that shapes who we are today. The question arises, how often do we make the right choices?

Not All the Time

God no! I have made plenty of mistakes in my life and have often made the wrong choices. But here's the funny thing: you are the sum of all of your mistakes. Make good mistakes.

That's why the biography of my life will be titled 'Journey of Mistakes and Right Decisions.'

Decisions and Their Consequences

At every point in my life, I made what I thought was the right decision at the time. Looking back, would I change some of them if I had the chance to go back in time and make the decision again? Probably, but many of them were right, and some were simply troubling.

Most of the important choices I made were right. I am still married, have two wonderful teen kids who are going to be well-educated, have a good career that will see me retire earlier, and I am generally a happy person. I made a few choices that were not the best, but those choices were not life-changing.

Gratitude and Reflections

I believe it is because of God's guidance that I have encountered some seemingly impossible turns in life. I sometimes wonder if it was a wise decision to get married, especially considering that my daughter once doubted it. But when I decided to marry her, I felt like I was receiving a divine gift. The feeling at the moment was overwhelming, and it is one of the peak moments in my life.

It's funny how sometimes the smallest decisions can lead to the most significant outcomes. For instance, when I was 17, I was offered an apprenticeship that would have meant earning five times what I make today, but it would also have meant working in a factory. Instead, I took the job at a hospital, where I met my wife. Without this fortuitous meeting, I would not have had my children and grandchildren, and I cannot imagine a life without them now. No amount of money could buy the happiness I have now.

Concluding Thoughts

Life is filled with choices, and each choice can significantly impact our future. While it's tempting to regret past decisions, it's essential to remember that the path we have chosen has led us to where we are today. Whether they were right or wrong, these decisions have shaped our lives in ways that cannot be replicated. So, embrace your mistakes and continue to make the best decisions possible.

It doesn't matter if we can't change our past choices now, as they have led to the present moment. If we had a chance to revisit these moments, would we change anything? Perhaps, but the world we have now and the people we love are invaluable. They are the true rewards of our life journey.