Hidden Customs: The Art of Encountering Tourists with Humor

As humans, we all have our unique customs and traditions that bind us to our communities. Some of these may be well-known, while others remain hidden and are only understood by a select few. One such custom, particularly memorable for me during my younger years, was the game played to frustrate tourists, not with a secret handshake but with a creative twist on common knowledge tests.

Common Signs and Their Misinterpretations

There was a particular sign on the edge of town that frequently caused confusion for travelers. The sign read, “Next services 60 miles.” Tourists, especially those unfamiliar with the area, would be understandably worried about the distance, leading them to inquire about the sign. In some instances, a simple and frequent response was provided: “What sign?” In other cases, the response was a total blank: “I don’t know, I've never been there.” This game was so widely observed and appreciated by both locals and visitors alike that it eventually became a form of litmus test and social lubricant within the community.

The Development of the Shibboleth

As the crowd of people who knew and appreciated this game grew, so did its impact on the local community. The game became so ingrained that even locals could have trouble distinguishing between genuine ignorance and deliberate humor. This led to the development of a shibboleth, a phrase or term used to test a person's membership in a particular group. In our case, the shibboleth became a question: "Are you being deliberately obtuse?"

When asked this question, a subtle smile was the response. This smile indicated that the participants were not truly ignorant but were instead engaging in the game for the shared enjoyment of the community.

Embracing Local Customs

Engaging with local customs like this can be a delightful and enriching experience. It offers a glimpse into the unique perspectives and histories of a place. It's a reminder that the communities we visit are not just geographic locations but lived-in and culturally rich spaces.

For those who immerse themselves in these local games and customs, the experience becomes more than a mere tourist attraction; it becomes a part of their own personal journey. It's an opportunity to connect with the locals on a deeper level, sharing in a moment of shared humor and understanding.

Further Reflection

This custom, which can be seen as a form of secret handshake, serves a larger purpose beyond mere amusement. It fosters a sense of belonging and inclusion among the community members. The game, when played with the right attitude and intent, can create a bond that transcends the boundaries of familiarity and stranger, turning potential discomfort into shared joy.

So, next time you find yourself in a town with a sign you can't quite understand or an answer that leaves you confused, don't be too quick to laugh; you might just be part of a long-standing local custom. Take a step back, enjoy the humor, and perhaps engage in the tradition yourself—after all, the true fun of the game is in the shared experience.