What Guys’ Pet Peeves Are About Girls' Appearance
I am a lesbian, and like many other women, my guy friends and I share traditional preferences for girls. If you're aiming to catch a guy who is in a high-earning field for the long term, he likely shares these pet peeves with us. This is not about self-esteem; it's about understanding preferences and maintaining mutual respect. Let’s dive in:
What We Hate
Heavy Makeup
Heavy Makeup - Bonus points if it looks terrible. This is distasteful, unprofessional, and a sign of vanity. It’s important to maintain a balance between confidence and professionalism, especially in a high-earning field.
Active Acne
Active Acne - If you’re not in your puberty years and not actively treating your acne, it’s a disservice to yourself. There are affordable, effective treatments available. Laying down on the excuses is not a solution.
Skimpy Clothing
Skimpy Clothing - If you think you have to show your butt and cleavage to look pretty, it might be time to reassess your sense of style. Poor choices in clothing can also mask hidden insecurities and lack of confidence.
Plastic Surgery
Plastic Surgery - If you choose to go down this path, it’s a sign of insecurity and a medically and financially irresponsible decision. Seek professional help and consider all options before making such a significant commitment.
Dyed Hair in Alternative Styles
Alternative Hairstyles (e.g. Shaved, Choppy, Pixie Cut) - Unprofessional, impulsive, and often indicative of a lack of thoughtfulness about personal appearance. Remember, how you present yourself can sometimes speak louder than words.
Tattoos
Tattoos - A permanent decision that, if expensive, can be a waste of money. Cheapskating on a tattoo is a life-long decision, and the cost will follow you around for the rest of your life. Consider the long-term implications carefully.
What We Love
Minimal Makeup
Minimal Makeup - Makeup that enhances your natural features rather than covering them up. Invest in products that complement your appearance and boost your confidence.
Cute Clothes That Show Off Your Personality
Cute Clothes - Choose outfits that express your personality. Whether it’s a pair of cat flats or your favorite college hoodie, let your style reflect your uniqueness.
Well-Maintained and Thoughtful Hair
Well-Maintained Hair - Make sure your hair is looked after. Consult a stylist to find a color that suits your skin tone and daily style. Take care of your hair to keep it shiny and easy to style.
Understanding and respecting each other’s preferences is crucial for long-term relationships. It’s not about changing who you are but about finding a common ground that fosters mutual respect and support.