Gifts and Challenges After NEET 2021: A Journey of Growth and Transformation
After NEET 2021, one individual from a poor-class family shared the transformational experience that turned his parents' anxiety and hidden tears into happiness. This story also reflects the financial challenges and the support received from his family during this crucial period.
The Best Gift: Financial Relief
Despite losing the NEET (National Eligible cum Entrance Test) 2021, the writer's father assured him that he would handle the financial burden of attending a government college. This reassurance often came with a financial cost of around 30,000 INR for admission, which seemed like a hefty sum to his father. However, the father's deep-seated love and support were the best gifts, giving the writer immense happiness and emotional relief.
Upon receiving the admission process details, the writer had already verified the fee structure before the NEET examination. This early preparation allowed him to approach his father with a clear understanding of the costs involved, thus alleviating his own worries and those of his family.
Material Gifts and Future Planning
After securing admission, the father surprised the writer with several tangible gifts:
A new phone, replacing the redmi note 4 he had been using since 2017.
A laptop with more advanced capabilities compared to his old one.
A smart phone for digital communication.
A bike for transportation.
A watch for fashion and utility.
Indirectly, a new academic and career path as indicated by the "IIT tag."
While these gifts brought joy, the writer also experienced other challenges during this period:
Mental and Emotional Struggles
The transition from intense NEET preparation to a new academic and personal life brought several challenges:
Increased boredom as a new student in the campus environment.
Mental breakdowns due to the high-pressure adjustment phase.
Reduced dopamine levels at the end of each day, reflecting a sense of emptiness or dissatisfaction.
Disruption of daily routines and schedules.
Insomnia due to loss of focus and consistent sleep patterns.
Overuse of social media and gaming platforms.
Decreased physical activity, such as football, due to lack of consistency.
Reflection and Growth
Despite these setbacks, the writer reflects on the essence of these challenges:
‘I don't care about these gift gimmicks. What I care about is the best gift I've given my parents - the happiest and most fulfilling life possible. That's my source of satisfaction.' This highlights the importance of emotional and mental wellness in achieving personal goals and milestones.
Conclusion
This journey of growth and transformation reflects the varied aspects of life post-NEET. While the initial setbacks can be overwhelming, the support from loved ones and personal resilience play significant roles in overcoming challenges and achieving personal satisfaction.