Floral Festivals and the Unexpected: A Gardener's Tale

From grand celebrations to personal experiences, flowers play a significant role in our lives. While many of us appreciate the beauty and fragrance of blooming flowers, others may find themselves grappling with the unexpected challenges of flower theft. In this article, we explore a gardener's journey through different cultural customs, flower theft incidents, and the serendipitous ways these challenges have impacted their lives.

From Maine to Kerala: A Journey of Flower Appreciation and Challenges

When we lived in Maine, we had a watermelon plant that drew admirers from miles away. Visitors would stop to take photos of the growing melon. However, our experience of flower theft was different when we returned from a weekend trip. We discovered that the melon had disappeared, never to be seen again. Such stories are not limited to fruits and vegetables but also extend to beautiful floral displays.

Experience in a Rural Setting

Currently, I reside in a rural area in Kerala, India, where Onam, a significant festival, brings together beautiful flower designs known as pookkalam. These designs are often made with flowers, and while some people create elaborate ones from their gardens, others collect them from nearby gardens during the festival. As a gardener, it was disheartening to see flowers disappear during Onam, only to be replaced by the sight of children being too mesmerized by the adventure of collecting flowers.

Reciprocal Acts and Community Trust

Unlike the gardeners in the 60s whose flowers were destroyed, my experience in Kerala was different. When my flowers vanished during Onam, I waited early the next morning to intercept the children. With a sweet request, I invited them to take all the flowers they wanted. Their interest in the adventure was so strong that they chose this over the flowers. It was a delightful discovery that highlights the balance between cultural customs and the natural inclination of children.

Security and Fencing: Measures for Protection

While some gardens are vulnerable to theft, others have measures in place to protect their floral displays. In my rural setting, the property is fenced and has a Rottweiler that effectively deters unwelcome visitors. In Maine, we had a protective barrier as well in the form of video cameras placed around the perimeter of our property. However, we discovered that sometimes the best protection is a kind word and a willingness to share.

The Role of Squirrels: An Urban Legend

While humans are known to steal flowers, nature also has its own form of theft. Squirrels, with their mischievous ways, often climb up into balconies to steal bulbs. In my experience, these little devils add an interesting layer to the world of gardening and emphasize the need for a well-placed protective strategy.

Conclusion: A Reflection on Gardening and Cultural Practices

Through these diverse experiences, we have learned that while flower theft can be a disappointing reality, it also offers opportunities for reciprocal acts of kindness and trust-building. Whether it's sharing bulbs with squirrels or inviting children to take flowers for a festival, let’s embrace these moments with open hearts, for they celebrate the essence of gardening: the sharing and enjoying of beauty.

Additional Tips for Gardening Enthusiasts

Here are some tips that might help you in case you encounter similar challenges:

Install Surveillance Cameras: Use cameras to monitor your property and catch any potential thieves. Fencing: Install fences and gates to deter intruders. Secure Bulbs: Keep your flower bulbs secure, perhaps in a protective shed or a secure location. Engage the Community: If you notice a frequent pattern of theft, consider organizing a neighborhood watch or working with local authorities. Kindness: Sometimes, being kind to potential thieves can yield surprising results.

Final Thoughts

No matter the challenge, gardening is a fulfilling activity that connects us with nature and our communities. Let’s continue to cherish and share the beauty of flowers, embracing the unexpected lessons that come our way.