City vs. Country Life: Finding Your Perfect Place

Choosing between living in a city or a rural area can be a challenging decision, often influenced by personal preferences, lifestyle, and practical considerations. Throughout my journey, I've explored both environments, ultimately finding a place that fits my needs perfectly. In this article, I'll share my experiences and insights on why living in a rural environment was the right choice for me.

Personal Experience and Insights

For many years, I found myself relying on mass transit in the city of Seattle, where the hustle and bustle of urban life provided endless activities and entertainment options. However, as I grew older, I began to notice that certain amenities and space were increasingly unavailable in rural areas, making city life more appealing.

Urban Life: Seattle and Beyond

From my college days until my mid-30s, I lived in Seattle and its surrounding areas. I experienced apartment living, living in a shared setting, and eventually, buying my first house in Kirkland. Despite the convenience of city life, I encountered challenges such as constant noise from the freeway, traffic delays, and the hustle to accommodate my daily routine.

As time passed and my life settled into a routine, my desire for change grew stronger. I began to explore the idea of living in a rural environment, craving more space, privacy, and a setting free from distractions. Ultimately, during the pandemic, I embarked on a quest to find my perfect place, covering 13,000 miles across 26 states in 4 months with my dog in tow.

Rural Life: Missouri and Beyond

The journey led me to Missouri, where I found a house that perfectly met my needs. This picturesque property is nestled on 3.5 acres with a stream, an indoor saltwater pool, and a deep woodsy backdrop. The strategic placement places me nine miles from the closest towns, ensuring a peaceful and secluded environment.

The shift from city to rural life was significant. In the city, my life was constantly consumed by external factors like traffic, noise, and daily routines. In contrast, my current rural setting allows me to work, think, and find solitude. The change in scenery and lifestyle has completely transformed my life for the better.

Key Considerations for Choosing a Lifestyle

The decision between city and rural life depends on personal preferences and the effort one is willing to put into finding the perfect place. For some, it’s about the convenient access to amenities, job opportunities, and social activities that cities offer. For others, it’s about the desire for more space, privacy, and a quieter, more peaceful environment.

Why City Life?

Endless activities and entertainment options Convenience and diverse amenities Available job opportunities and career prospects

Why Rural Life?

Space, privacy, and seclusion Quality of life and tranquility Simplicity and time-saving for daily routines

However, choosing a rural setting is not without its challenges. It requires a significant amount of effort and research to find the perfect spot, and being willing to put the time into digging for the right opportunities. The effort pays off, but it may not be for everyone. Sometimes, life in a van seems like an adventurous option, but it's a bit unsettling without a permanent home. Nevertheless, for those willing to take the risk, it can be an exciting and rewarding adventure.

Conclusion

The answer to the question of whether one should live in a city or a rural area depends on the individual's lifestyle and preferences. Whether you're drawn to the conveniences of urban living or the peace and serenity of rural life, the key is to be willing to put in the time and effort to find the perfect spot that fits your needs. The decision to live in a rural setting can significantly change your life for the better if you're open to the adventure and commitment required.

Urban life in Seattle

Rural view in Missouri

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