Are You an IINFJ that Prefers the Night Over the Morning?

As an IINFJ, my inclination towards the night has always been a core part of my nature. These enchanting hours, filled with the silent whispers of the moon and the gentle glow of the streetlights, provide a sanctuary away from the chaos of the day.

My Circadian Preferences

My relationship with the morning has always been distant and somewhat strained. The early hours, where sunlight spills into my room like a foreign entity, have never been my friend. Sunlight, whatever form it may take, has never truly attracted me. Instead, I am drawn to the cool, ephemeral light of the night, enveloped by the warmth of the moon and the shimmer of starlight.

Equally, I detest strict schedules and routines, especially those that last for long periods. Sticking to a rigid timetable feels akin to being shackled, suffocating the spontaneity and individuality that I so deeply cherish. Breaking free from such constraints brings me a profound sense of liberation, allowing me to explore and express myself unencumbered.

Slaves to Time

Being a slave to the clock, a construct mortared by societal standards, can be soul-estranging. The artificial notion of 'time' often feels at odds with the natural rhythms of the soul, an entity that flourishes best when left to its own devices. Attempts at adhering to such rules inevitably falter, or worse, diminish the soul's inherent resilience and vitality.

Breaking the Morn/Noon/Night Barrier

For me, the distinctions between morning, noon, and night are merely arbitrary markers. The only significant criterion is the amount of rest one gets. As long as I secure a minimum of two hours of sleep, the specific time of day holds little importance to me. I prefer the solitude of the nights, as well as the early mornings, when fewer people are awake and interacting.

My preferences are not just a choice but a necessity. The presence of others, especially in my sanctuary of solitude, disrupts the introspective and contemplative nature of my inner dialogue. However, the onset of parenthood has dramatically altered this dynamic. While I still hold a fondness for the early hours, the reality of my life now demands that I utilize this time for 'me' moments, amidst the demands of raising a family.

Adapting to the New Normal

The transition from night owlishness to an early riser has not been an easy one. Being a night person sometimes means basking in the quietude and solitude of the night, free from the distractions of others. The nights were my favorite period, the hours that allowed me to escape into a world of whispers, reading and writing, and deep contemplation.

Now, as a parent, while I find myself awake earlier, it's more to secure my own 'me' time. The constant presence of children and the late-night nature of my new role present formidable challenges. However, within these constraints, I make the most of the time I have, cherishing those precious few hours before the day truly begins.