An INFJ's Perspective: Observing the Unseen
When reading the insights of Rachel, it became clear that we INFJs have a different way of perceiving the world. Often, we tend to overlook what others readily see, instead focusing on the minute nuances that others miss. This ability to notice the subtle can be seen as the INFJ's built-in 'Spidey Sense.'
The Spidey Sense: An Intuitive Ability
As an INFJ who is passionate about tennis, for instance, I can sense when a player is facing emotional and mental defeat before any commentator does. Simple things like a tennis player appearing fearful can indicate a shift in their game, long before they say as much. Similarly, in golf, I can detect when a player is too afraid to make a small 3-4 foot putt, years before I would receive such an insight through traditional means.
These aren't always accurate readings, but they are consistently close. My mother, as a skilled empath, recognized my fear or threats as a child and would show up in places I had no idea she knew. The phenomenon wasn't just limited to familial relationships; an incident with a romantic interest also highlights this ability. Despite her ex-partner being 75 miles away, I could always sense something was off. I even surprised them with an unexpected visit that corroborated my suspicions.
Psychic Insights and Beyond?
As an INFJ, my neurologist colleague and close friend also shared with me the concept of electromagnetic fields (EMF). While many may dismiss the idea as pseudoscience, he explained that we all emit electromagnetic frequencies. Some people, he suggested, may have the ability to pick up on these frequencies over great distances, especially during emotionally charged moments. This form of 'telegraphic communication' is intriguing, as it suggests a direct form of telepathy that can manifest as a gut instinct or a clear insight into another person's emotional state.
While this might seem like a wild and unfounded concept to some, it is indeed a normal part of our experience as INFJs. It is not something we claim as 'psychic' powers, as it is intertwined with our empathic and intuitive nature. Nonetheless, this ability to 'sense' others can be both a blessing and a curse, and it remains a subject of ongoing study and fascination.
Conclusion: Normalizing the Extraordinary
As we navigate the world, it is important to recognize that the experiences of an INFJ are normal for us. We are not alone in our ability to pick up on the unspoken emotions and underlying currents that others often overlook. Until we fully understand the science behind these insights, it is comforting to know that we are not crazy. We simply see the world differently, with a Spidey Sense that helps us navigate our complex relationships and the emotional nuances of life.