Am I a Focus on Parking Spots or a Calm Negotiator?
No, and that is not a behavior I would engage in. I generally avoid talking to strangers unless it's about the weather or other mundane topics. I certainly don't engage with anyone trying to start a disagreement or conflict. These situations are never worth it and usually end poorly.
Would I Engage in a Parking Spot Dispute?
In theory, one might think that I might find myself in a situation where I would get into a parking spot dispute. However, such an event has never happened, and it wouldn't happen at a mall. If someone snatched a parking spot, instead of getting into an argument, I would view it as a good form of exercise. Mall parking, in most cases, is not a concern for me. It's just not worth the emotional investment. Arguments over parking spots can be remembered for years, while getting frustrated and finding another spot can be forgotten by the next day, unless you hold grudges.
The Reality of Parking Disputes
Personal experiences show that parking disputes can escalate to physical altercations. I have seen grown adults practically come to blows over parking spaces. This is mind-boggling to think about. There are times when I am in a hurry, running late for an appointment, or not feeling well, and the weather is terrible. These situations push me to look for the closest and most convenient parking spot.
Imagine you spot a parking spot and are about to park, only to see another driver pull in right in front of you. While I'm miffed, I don't get out of my vehicle to argue with a complete and total stranger about a silly parking space. It's not worth the hassle and could lead to an unnecessary confrontation.
Therefore, it's advisable to save your energy for things that really matter. Parking spaces are minor issues, so it’s best to keep calm and find another parking spot. This way, you avoid unnecessary stress and potentially dangerous situations.
Conclusion
Save your energy for things that really matter. Parking disputes can escalate quickly and are not worth the hassle. Stay calm and find another spot. You never know who you are dealing with, so keeping a cool head is always best.