Am I Among 'Most People'? Exploring the Concept of Uniqueness

Very few want to be ordinary, at least that's what many of us used to believe. I once held this belief too. Now, I’ve been trying to change by adopting subtle practices, such as starting every sentence or topic with a small letter. This mindset is deeply ingrained in our culture: we strive for uniqueness and often shy away from conformity.

However, my perspective on this has evolved. I am against impressing others just through pretense. Naturalness, in my view, is far more valuable than artificial demonstration. I believe that authenticity, honesty, and wholesomeness are the true virtues we should embrace in life.

A Day in the Life of a Seeker of Uniqueness

Take a look at my daily routine:

Wakes up at 7:30 A.M. Attends college every day, except on holidays Pursues hobbies and interests that could help others, such as video games Imbues wealth of manners and values in daily interactions

My goals include finding ways to contribute to society and make a positive impact, even in small ways. It’s not about being rich or materially affluent; it’s about being rich in one’s manners and values.

The Divine Perspective

There was a time when I questioned my existence, my worth, and my place among ordinary people. Once, I spoke to Narayana, the beloved god, who told me, “See, even if you are a woman, there are many others like you. You are one among many.” His words were a profound reminder that I am not alone, and that I, too, am an ordinary human being, albeit with unique qualities and aspirations.

These divine revelations made me ponder further. Do I consider myself part of 'most people'? On one hand, I agree with the wisdom that water seeks its own level. We tend to align with the trends and norms of society because these patterns are familiar and often comforting. On the other hand, I recognize that I have distinct individuality in areas such as my sexual orientation, my religious beliefs, and some of my personal views. Despite these differences, I still find myself following the typical growth patterns and phases of a teenager.

The Teenager's Perspective

Almost every teenager believes they are different from the majority. This belief is deeply rooted in the desire to feel unique and indispensable. Being unique is seen as a means to offer something rare and valuable, something that sets one apart from the 'crowd.'

However, the concept of 'most people' is often a subjective one. Most people like to think they are different and special, as it makes them feel needed and significant. Yet, the term 'most people' can be used to reinforce someone's point of view, especially when they are not willing to delve into the underlying facts. This often leads to a tendency to accept what the media presents as evidence without critical analysis.

To conclude, being among 'most people' is a complex and multifaceted idea. While there are aspects of my life that align with the norms and trends of my age group, I still hold onto the belief that I am unique in other ways. It's a balance between fitting in and standing out, between conforming and being an individual. Ultimately, it's about staying true to oneself and striving to make a positive impact in the world.

Conclusion

The journey to understanding whether we are part of 'most people' is ongoing. It's a path filled with self-discovery, understanding, and accepting our unique place in the world. Whether you're a teen or an adult, finding your path to uniqueness is a rewarding endeavor.