A Weekday Sailor: How I Spend My Sundays Solitary

As someone who spends 40-hour work weeks from Monday to Friday, my Sundays often offer a chance for a much-needed break from work and family commitments. With my busy days spent in restaurants, supporting my daughter’s career, and grocery shopping with my husband, my Sundays are a time to dive into personal interests and unwind. In this article, I’ll share the details of how I spend my solitary Sundays.

Relaxation and Crafting

Upon returning home from church, I often find myself relaxing in a recliner chair with my feet up. Whether or not I receive a call from relatives, I enjoy my time alone. After church, I typically engage in activities such as watching a livestreamed Latin mass, praying the Rosary and other spiritual prayers. This is followed by a meal with friends in our dining room, where I might read or write in spiritual or recreational books such as those by John Grisham. I also give in to artistic pleasures, drawing, painting, and conversing with friends and family. In particular, I love playing with the dogs that live in my neighborhood.

Scholarly Reflections

The passing of Father Reggie Foster, the world's finest Latinist, was devastating news to me. Given our extended quarantine, I wasn’t able to attend his funeral, which I deeply regret. This event has compelled me to think about the impact of such significant figures in my life. Father Foster’s legacy and the importance of such scholarship played a notable role in my academic pursuits. Reflecting on my master’s studies and the accumulation of readings, I often spend Sunday reviewing the books and notes I have collected throughout the week.

Daily Routines and Enjoyments

On a typical Sunday, I might spend the day reading a new book or browsing through a newspaper. I relish long walks with my music or catching a new movie at the theater. My goal is to engage in activities that bring me joy and relaxation. Additionally, I often volunteer at local senior homes, childcare centers, or parks, which are always pleasant and fulfilling experiences.

Exploring Local Events

A significant part of my Sunday activities involves exploring local events. Whether they’re artistic exhibitions, cultural festivals, or community gatherings, I make it a point to attend them. These events provide me with a much-needed break from my routine and introduce me to new experiences and connections. I have a particular love for going to beautiful events in my neighborhood, which often enrich my life and provide a fresh sense of perspective.

Ultimately, my Sundays are a time to recharge, nurture my personal interests, and maintain a balance in my busy weeks. From spiritual reflection to artistic pursuits, solitary Sundays are a precious time that allows me to find peace and enjoyment in the quiet corners of my life.